Certainly the relationship is the first and most important from the viewpoint of further development of relations move. Impressions of the relationship fall into two categories.
Dating advice - first impressions when you date a girl
First, on clothes – often a false impression of little-known man. Say the first impression makes your opponent to decide whether to continue the relationship with you or not. In which it does not depend on whether you liked him or not, but if you have interested or not. No matter how attractive you are outside, if the first communication you have presented themselves as uninteresting, chances for further development of relations practically none. If you’ve liked in the first meeting – he will forgive you the first time unknown neinteresnost in the future. The first impression your chances depend on the continuation of the relationship and the possibility to create a second impression.
The second impression is “mind” – it is formed over a long enough period of time and to influence the setting is very complicated. If the first stage the man may not show what is unrelated and plays his role in the last stage that necessarily comes to light and the second impression is usually the man as it is of course, the first stage may last a long time but is known from experience – no longer possible to play the same role – or get up himself or his role is you. In which the second was the worst of everything.
Now let’s talk about manners and methods of dating. Let’s start the conversation with more complex situations – and the object you are not familiar at all. A typical situation – you like someone on the street and you want to learn.
Just to tie approach and talk – most likely nothing will be obtained. Even if your object is not against – there are people around who will see that you have to learn approaches. Try another way – the approach and ask how to get to so-and where you (well you need to know how to get there). If your object knows how to reach there – ask him to accompany you. If you do not know – tell me how to reach and offer to accompany him. With this you kill two rabbits: first, your object is complicated, without suspecting that it tied acquaintance, and secondly, people saw the beginning of your call are passed along and can not suspect you of anything stupid. People who come after, see you talk and think about your long-known (ie you do not pay attention).
If you travel on the bus – do not try to zagovaryate with this you will challenge the conviction on the part of others and embarrassment on the part of the site. In this case (if not in a hurry, of course), wait for the bus, where your site goes down and out her hand flag. Straight to focus on that now it is not customary to do and you’ll look first, original man, and second – a gentleman, for whom this is natural. For greater conviction Give a hand to all ladies exiting the bus, if you do not anticipate any.
Slightly more successful results gives a more complex method that requires the presence of two people from each country. Example: you are traveling with her boyfriend on a bus and you see two girls – the subject of acquaintance (who may not know each other). Approach to one of them (that which you have chosen for themselves) and say: “Excuse me, my friend wants to get acquainted with your girlfriend (just with this girl) but he is very shy and can not do this alone . You would not know you could not imagine her? “. And describe your friends in a good side. As a result, both girls were puzzled: the first in that you do not start trouble with her desire to learn, the second – the originality of the method of dating. Relationship continues with the first soil of pimping, but the second – on the basis of confusion.
Simpler forms Dating in captivity – discotheques, airplanes, trains, etc.. Them we will not consider them. Situation at least acquaintances through friends. ” Try to start the rout not too late. Always need to let the guests an opportunity not to “lodge”, where guests are welcome, but should return to their homes. Otherwise, in the event of a crisis, is not always possible to further communication together.
Among those present should not be many people unknown to each other. In this case there will be less tight and inconvenience. If there are several unknown couples Dating – try as host to distribute them early on in pairs (for example, define them seats), in accordance with their wishes.
And yet – it is best to present the number is four. In this case, the audience will be busy with the creation of only one pair and attention will be splits. If soiree is designed specifically for dating, it is a necessary condition the presence of equal numbers of men and women. Should not be abandoned for the acquainted pairs long, and should not be enticed to anything. If they agree on something – they will find a way to tell.
It was during the soiree a few times to get out on time for negotiations with their representatives to take cognizance of couples to reflect their desires, which can be expressed to each other. Must play quiet and relaxing music.
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