Impossible love …

by admin on October 18, 2009

Hello … I have seen many times how people share their life with the thought that they would receive good advice. Finally I decided to do the same, I do not know what to do, what to think and all that confuses me, but here is my story:
A year ago I met a boy who is my school – timid, shy, charming … the things that caught my eye. Suddenly we became a couple is not taking things seriously, then at least I did not know what I want later. He became very jealous, love is in my ears to constantly show him, can not do without me.
One day something happened to me and terribly at that moment I most need his support when he realized what had happened to me accused me of things has adopted a completely different, but only wanted to hear the words “I’m with you, everything will be okay “and more slow. Consider that can not be with someone koyto not understand me and support me at this moment and I left.
During this time I really hurt him. 1 months we were together and 1 month I looked like mad, pleaded with me for a little love, and I was so insensitive, constantly told him that my child (one aged 16 years, we have) that I’m not worthy of that search quite different after this month did not call more. We started the new school year is continuously detect the corridors skip out all fours, it was hell.
I felt that was not the man I knew. Throughout this year, he was not with any other girl, and I switched a lot and saw that it hurt him, although he was hiding because I constantly wrote in skype for new boys and blather …
During this time I was really very boys and I felt that I could not meet the boy who will make me fall in love with him, all the connections were disappointed and this is what me back to thinking about this guy.
Where did this year, something made me talk to him and ask forgiveness for everything, assuring him that indeed this time everything will be different and would not regret, and after one week, we saw a lot of talk about one topic and suddenly slipped one question “what do you want?”. I replied to him that want him and he whispered to me “I’ve always been yours.
At that moment I felt such warmth, my heart zatuptya. We were in us, lying on the bed, embraced him severely and told me “I love you, and you?”. During this time the tears, I felt that love is still, I realized that I really hurt him. Not cease to weep for joy, I was so happy to finally experience this feeling – to be loved, after so many disappointments.
We are already 3 months along, and with every passing day I love him more and more, can not do without it I feel it is everything to me. Naturally continue to damn me very jealous, I had confidence in these months … I changed my phone number because it is irritating when every time we are together looking for me guys. I stopped going out, gives his report on everything.
I know he loves me, but not the same as before, is a different person … a stronger, more proud when grilled, showing indifference to me, I’m the one looking for him and cry in front of him constantly, but I understand normally it is after everything has become more powerful does not want to be hurt again right? Is a wonderful person, keep her so much and I love him so much that it hurts …
Everything was beautiful, showing him his mother came home, but there is something that does not stop to think and to cry, because I know our love is impossible, h ashtoto is not a Bulgarian, a Turk and I thought this blight . During this time, which are together, I have not pozainteresuvala another, nobody can do me any particular impression, I am fully committed to it.
I am so nice, I want it forever, I feel that it is human to me how much time remains to me … the only way to split is when you graduate after two years and went to study elsewhere. I do not want to stay here without him, and I lunch that Mom will never accept it … What to do, help me?

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I think it is perfectly normal to behave like this – you had gone to the head. But after all, just you deserve it. Relax – the time will be deeply in love with you and things will get better, hopefully.  And what is the nationality, I do not think there is any significance. If all of you go well – Do not listen to anyone.

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Do not think about what will happen to your relationship after 2-3 years because if you keep thinking what will happen next week as they destroy you and your relationship. As you said, live with him as the last man on earth if you love him so much!

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If still hurts and cries run. Never stops most to become worse. Show him clearly that you can leave if you want. Get him this confidence, because time will become killer will hurt for at least and I will make mad, and you think: “he is entitled, I am really guilty blablabla. In absolutely no event do not think things like: “Infernal much I love him and I can not even hurt to ask. If it will hurt me is me and sucks on it. “Believe me I have a lot of friends in the past like hell which samonavivat the boy is making them crazy and destroys them is actually damn decent, good, love them endlessly And what you do not …

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No need for such a connection, all the girls like bad guys, but sooner or later realize it was all a mistake. They do not change, instead, become worse … I went through a similar komshmar, but now I’m a good boy who loves me and my child … I really sometimes miss the thrill, but when the bottom line, understand what you want and what you need . Think about it

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He thinks in a totally different way than anyone I’m the only person who could understand him … I constantly repeat that if you listen to me much love and there is no reason to end the relationship ni.Iska sigornost, but I doverie.Mislya not that it changed their habits, I stopped going out with friends and stay at home and do not want to have fun without him is a little proof that I love him, but know that it is aware of what a pity!

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Baby child know whether I should tell you, but you shall do but very very stupid. We live in a fantasy world yours, which may at any moment to collapse, and you stay ruined. So run as effectively as possible away from this guy.
Do not know if only I can see, but your relationship has ended long ago. You tell myself that it prohibits you everything you want and constantly report into care. This is not life, actually you are very unhappy, but blinded by his feelings and that prevents you to look at real life. Currently you are not, friends, and without any support was anyone was not real fun, etc.
Somewhat I understand, this is your first major love, and we are all “He passed on time. But you’re still small and there are many boys who will love and that will unfortunately hurt until you find a man to spend his life.

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You see samotsitiram will be to show that exactly the same:
“Believe me I have a lot of friends in the past like hell samonavivat in which the boy is making them crazy and destroys them is actually damn decent, good, love them endlessly and still not know what ‘…”
Here I think it is different from others. Like them. And you think loves you more than anybody else. Like them. This is not love more lust and selfishness. Jealous because they do not protect you, but because they protect themselves. Does not want to hurt him and disgraced. How can you love someone, but do not you trust him? That means he does not think of a good and faithful man. Run do not first to it and not going through to the latter. Wonder what will become one day as realize that we do or leave it alone, and you’re expelled all his friends for him and his unused to the normal way of life. One will become a wreck. Remember my words …

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“I constantly repeat that if you listen to me much love and there is no reason to end the relationship”
Are you his pet that it slushkash and not to leave without him? Surely prosper experience some masochistic pleasure from your relationship so far, but as this connection is unlikely to survive long, if unlikely to survive especially happy with their man, they behave like a slave at home. I do not believe he is particularly happy with you if you keep on playing his flute events without at least a little dignity and a desire for personal freedom.
Continuously to detect the corridors skip out all fours, it was hell. ”
And I swear to sever those who love you.
“One day something happened to me and terribly at that moment I most need his support when he realized what had happened to me accused me of things has adopted a completely different, but only wanted to hear the words” I’m with you everything will be okay “and more slow. Consider that can not be with someone koyto not understand me and support me at this moment and I left. … “Justify his actions did not want to be disappointed again and it just that because it really showed that loves me ”
Everything written by you remain with the impression that you showed, not how much they loved and how much I want to love him. True love is unquestioning. What kind of nonsense is this “constantly repeated to me that if you listen to me much love and there is no reason to end the relationship???
If you listen, you’ll love if you do not – short!? Кви are these transactions do not you meet the market?

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Hear me now, baby … It would not let him, will not leave, it will break your head and this is clearly more than advice … So in this direction Hich will not throw you to give, nor warnings have mother of this bull … now you think you know much that you anything, it is clear that all experiences in love and nothing can surprise you, it is normal to think that after another year and one will realize that you’re wrong, that not everything was what it seems, but only by the distance of time … consider it normal to be so, growing, grew, I, you and all here in one and another year to turn back and smile will recognize that we were too complacent and that we ponauchili someone else a lesson and will read the blog and clicking with the tongue, besides, it would be sad and 16 and 26 and 36 all have the same, you do not know … who had said “I’m not so young that they know everything …
Love of Muslims is something terrible, as a strong, passionate and combustion, and is so devastating if things go the wrong direction … You’re his, it is yours and not six, five … He wants the best for you and is absolutely Convinced that he knows what is best for you much better than you own, so you have no choice but to listen to him … The motto of such a relationship is “Listen to me, let me decide and will bring you to the moon palm … I know you already showed pieces of the moon, but you still have a problem with the other part – to hear him unconditionally and let him decide everything about your life together … I’m sure it felt great, like a princess – ankle loved protected … and security is of top places among the qualities that we look for women today, in a very uncertain world in which we live and in which men are becoming less and less men know that you look very attractive thought that your husband would come into the fire because of you …
And no doubt he is the best thing that they love and they look as no one else has done it by now and as most likely never will man … they look very difficult to abandon such love, many is difficult to obey common sense and not the heart that is dying to his …
Another thing I will tell you, Muslim men are not jealous, they do not think you will go to hire * tally with the first meet, but I think you represent them to the public, that you must at a level not be the shame of their name and honor, not to me calumniation … very difficult to explain this, imagine our villages 100 years ago – Stoyan Half-naked wife walked the entire neighborhood and speaks evil against it, hey, it is still in Muslim communities, they can not survive that others will watch, talk about, comment, wish to lower their way woman, on the contrary, they want their wives to be their honor and pride to represent them – to know how to behave, when to speak, when to be silent, how to educate children, decent but not where he went to the center of attention and to respond to all …
When a man loves a Muslim is a real and grave … As long as its his will for you makes the impossible will take fire to protect you, however, when pochnesh much to be open and to pursue rights and claims will crush you and you to his batting eye will hurt, and not dreamed that the favorite may be referred to you … I’ll tell you that you gave everything you had and what is not and will call … and then neblagodarnitsa , baby, Lord help you …
And believe me, whatever happens, he will always have the right – whatever you do, you deserve it, even if you cheat, even if they hurt you – you deserve it with their behavior because you are capable of it give what a man needs, but if you dare to do something, he will align with the ground, and you know it, you felt it already in your first … a separation in a new one, trust me, it will is anything but peaceful and will expire rivers of blood and tears before they abandon this story, and is currently not dramatize the least …
Very nice thought, and another – now still nothing … But if you divide one days have families and children, then ooooshte is more difficult and there will be no turning back …
Many more can you say about the relationship with Muslim and I am sure to some of these findings and reached its own, and now its the dilemma – I want to sacrifice certain things in the name of a strong and true love …
Only you able to answer these questions that torment you iztormozenata head, nobody can not tell you how much you can handle and what are your priorities – to hear your voice or your loved to madness than a little obsessed man …
“I think that that changed their habits, I stopped going out with friends and stay at home and do not want to have fun without him is a little proof that I love him, but know that it is aware of what a pity!” – No, dear No, no, no and no! Not aware of it, for him it is something perfectly normal, he takes it as a sacrifice on your part, he just feels that you came to mind in the head and finally you began to behave according to acceptable standards, and its understanding and very Are you aware of the sacrifice on your part!
Two tips will give you nice and want to hear me – not to be without friends! We regret and you’ll damn myself that one day something with your friend happen … I sacrificed my friends, I am sure you will find a way that is careful not bothering him too, both to maintain the link with them and find a way to see them ..
And advice number 2, listen to your parents! For those who bleat, to repeat once again: Listen parents! Do not blindly obey them, but listen to what you say because those are the only people in the world, to repeat the only people in the world, which I think sound first, and only then think about yourself … Contrary to belief 99% of children worldwide, the words of parents are not empty babble, they are drawn from two sources – their life experiences and their boundless love for us! How many times my mother and my father (poor, as I think about what caused them …) have given my opinion and advice, and they see that it helps, I have been left to break my head while I do not go with that same broken head down tell them “Mom, Dad, you were right.” Not allowed to get there, again because of the shoulder of his mother will still roaring and it will be the only person who will be there for you and will help you and wiping your tears, and not having friends tell you ” Well, I told you right, but who listens to … ”
Contrary to what you think, your mother will never accept your boyfriend because Mehmed not something she did not think euphonious and prefers Pesho, but for a single completely banal and prosaic reason – fear for you (yes, I know what I say ” There is nothing to be afraid, I’m big, I know what is right for me, I head on her shoulders, and I can not solve alone, she does not live my life, I can not feel how much he loves me and what makes me happy … ” ) is afraid that they will suffer, they will love blind you to look soberly interfere, afraid that this man will hurt you, fear not, for love. And yet they left off to do whatever you want and have it lead you, and says nothing, though its interior is extremely difficult, believe me, so you owe her a bit to listen to what he says and you say that, although not seem so, it is only for your own good.
Cut them these slogans UN-style “we are all human beings … people are, but we raised and educated differently, have different views, we are representatives of different cultures and is extremely difficult to accept others as they are without judging them or to have a bias …
And to operate such a link, everyone should abandon what it is and try to create something new, mid, who work … Otherwise, everything is doomed in advance … and it is not love but passion is the difference … very thin – in the first case, build, construct, destroy the second …
Be very careful, open your eyes, think soberly, not to go easy and be very happy!

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Smile, You wisdom I have no choice but to download Batmanskiya suit and finally reveal his identity – yes, I actually am a woman … I do not know how the women succeeded in my matured so well camouflaged comments so far, but whatever is the path of logic you, congratulations! No longer hiding, Jump will write as a woman … And in this post I will do something more – I’ll write as a woman, strong and experienced the same emotional connection. I think my point would be savseeeeeeem slightly closer to that of the author or from your mistake ..? Maybe you had a passionate connection with the Turk, if so, to serve up excuses, and you are obviously very competent in relationships with representatives of other religions …
When you love someone, you must comply with what he is, where they come from, what it means is what you expect and what you offer in return, not only you and pretend to plead for freedom, equality and Brotherhood …
The girl has exercised his right of choice – was denied by certain things to be with her beloved husband – I do not see anywhere to keep her tied to a force?? So I do not they give us these rights and freedom of choice … What is freedom? Can you define freedom? Because its terms may be different from yours, of mine … not to mention his, which will give a completely different definition of freedom from your order, dear me smile … and she still chose to be with him, but not with you, so that in case his definition of freedom is a little more significant than your own …
“Very nice thought, and another – now still nothing … But if you divide one days have families and children, then ooooshte is more difficult and there will be no turning back …
Many more can you say about the relationship with Muslim and I am sure to some of these findings and reached its own, and now its the dilemma – I want to sacrifice certain things in the name of a strong and true love …
Only you able to answer these questions that torment you iztormozenata head, nobody can not tell you how much you can handle and what are your priorities – to hear your voice or your loved to madness than a little obsessed man … ”
If you think the council who have given a top post is “Put veil, woman, and Turk, to have peace and love, you do not see beyond his nose, but unfortunately I have no desire to explain what you I wanted to say with the above. And no it was not designed for you and one for which it was intended, I think you understand me.

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