Given: a girl older than me, more than 5 years old, closer to 8
Time of action: the beginning of February

Period from dating to sex: 2,5 hours.

Find: Pivnyatskaya party in a bar in Moscow

Meet: A table filled with various goodies, was completely piled beer mugs in the air was a hum of voices mixed up.Sometimes a pause, and someone said a toast, then all stood up in unison and loudly, endorsing, drank to the prosperity of our pivnyatskoy squads. I came closer to the evening, when the party was in full swing, who would have already come, who was about to leave, was still there. There were about 40 of them are about 10-12 girls. Introduction. At some point, immediately after my arrival, I was beside her, smiled, held out his hand, introduced himself and, in response to her smile, gently stroked her back. During the next hour LA to my right sat through one or two Pivnyak.

Attract. I have not said a word to her for an hour, but from time to time signs, which devised the course, told her all sorts of instructive things from her life and her immediate future. She looked at me, smiled and slowly began to play up, straightened her hair, straightened her blouse, and a barely perceptible stroked beer mug – up and down. I imagined and brought her emotionally through metasoobscheniya some information. Imagine as if you were with another person alone, and you can not speak, but you want to tell him something very important to both of you and do it with gestures, movements, some signs or something else. Metasoobscheniya that I gave: “You’re pretty”, “You’re clever,” “I admire you,” I’ll fuck “, etc. This internal state, when I pronounce mentally and physically accompanied by what I said in her address. There has been a game to be fine views. I looked at her intently, imagining that there is only me and her, and nobody else. We seemed to stand together under a large glass dome, we can observe everything that is happening around and with it we are alone and we share something intelligible only to the two of us. Metasoobschenie: “I know something about you. I know that you know what I know about you something. “ Communicate with her so held in the intervals between the way I chatted with Pivnyak and drank beer. My attention has been focused either only on it, or not on it at all. Most of the time I felt her presence, as if we came together and I pulled it before a few times or something else. I do not know. Between us established a special relationship, and I felt it. I caught her eye, when I looked at her, her flushed cheeks. I played with it a game of billiards, for the first time with her talking. She said that she was very interested in how we communicate. Against the background could be heard blows balls chokane mugs, cries Pivnyak. The room was light enough for a lot of people in the bar were no free seats. I walked up to her, smiled, priobnyal waist, then ran his hand up the back and stroked her hair, then moved up to her and kissed her. It was a brief kiss (3 seconds). She pulled away slightly, glancing at the table, where sat my friends. I took her by the priest, led him aside and began to kiss for more than a frivolous, no one saw us, we were alone. I stepped back a bit and she started to be active, embraced and began kissing.

L.: “Not bad to go then to a club, I want to dance!”

Me: “When this all ends, go back and it is a great place where I’ll drink more beer, and we will be able to communicate with you.”

Close: Time – the beginning of the first, began to disperse. Even the lamps on the street, it was cool and sped past the car. I caught the car and we drove up to me.

Fuck: walked up to me and went into the elevator. Embraced, we kissed. We went to my apartment, I prepared tea, battered – and I began to caress her, to initiate and sexually harassing. Trachea. Morning accompanied her to the car, said goodbye. I was about to leave. She:
- Write down my phone …
- Dictates.
- Xxx-xx-xx
- Recorded. (pause)
- My name is LA …
- Aha …
I planted it in the car. After 5 minutes, phoned and said that she is a gem that I was with her was very good, and I call her. After this meet regularly about once a week, I have. It rings, I appoint the time and place.

What I have done well: a well conducted fast seduction, setting off the first day of acquaintance.

What could I do better: he could fuck LA together with the girl who sat opposite me at the bar.

Theory of the Vegas game

Theory LAS VEGAS (40 points) by Neil Strauss (aka Style). Title LAS VEGAS – a game the initial letters of the following eight qualities (looks, adaptability, strength, value, emotional connection, goals, authenticity, self – worth).

From the interpreter:
Title LAS VEGAS – a game the initial letters of the following eight qualities (looks, adaptability, strength, value, emotional connection, goals, authenticity, self – worth).

Each of these qualities is estimated from 1 to 5, where 1 – this is normal, and 5 per cent is reserved for one of the best of the best in the world. Note: If you do not possess a certain quality, put a zero points set themselves one point only if the quality of the development of medium or above average.

Generally, you have 6 points for low-quality women, 10 points for normal women and 18 for high quality.

Who you are.

You want to be Las Vegas. We get into the details later and give you each of these qualities, but for the beginning – it’s your long-term goals. This is not just your inner spirit, this is your actual level of the game (remember that our western colleagues, the word “game” oboznachet proper pickup and seduction – approx. Trans.). It is easy to say and learn, very difficult to do. Each of these steps, there are a few podetapov, but we briefly outline them in general terms.

APPEARANCE: A well-maintained and eye-catching. Belonging to the tribe, part of which she wants to be, or at least to visit.

Solution: Stylist, female “consultation”, a hairdresser, shopping for clothes.

Adaptability: It is here that come into play, humor and intellect (which is why “trapped” guys do not “get” girls). This is her opportunity to introduce you to the court his family / friends. Here – adventurism, spontaneity, independence, willingness to take risks and to cope with new situations. Are you exciting, you live here and now. This ability to be funny in a club steeped in her family, and the complete “by a bastard” with their friends. Quote: “The species that do not adapt, is doomed to extinction.

Solution: Travel. Knowledge of culture. New things and unfamiliar situations in your life.

Power: not defined as a physical force, but as the ability to defend it. This is traditionally done, not by money or muscle, but through determination, courage, good and practical knowledge, skills razrulivat situation, taking responsibility, self-confidence, the existence of its own reality and the possibility to make her feel safe. Also – the stability and moral values (good or bad, but steadfast), through which she feels the comfort and safety. Devotion.

Solution: Permanent self-correction in their response to its verification.

You constantly check on the ability to do this for a girl. Here is a small list, cheat sheet:

1. Take decisions. Do not ask her what she wants, but it is normal to recognize her preferences.
2. Do not change their opinions based on what she thinks, to make it pleasant or establish a close contact. This is allowed only if it convinces you logical arguments.
3. Know your environment. Where to go, things to do, that cool.
4. Be effective in communication, learn to involve others (waiters, doormen, taxi drivers) in the conversation.
5. Looks the group’s leader and other men.
6. Please take into their own rules.
7. Tell stories: About how to help protect his girl from danger, because it’s natural for you, how you struck someone out of life for violation of your rights because you follow “a policy of zero tolerance” of such things.
8. In situations where people are confused or hesitant, take responsibility for themselves.
9. Does not allow her to misbehave or manipulate you, as it does with other men or their father.
10. Techniques storytelling. Wearing a holster shoulder mount (approx. Trans. – Suggest that it is a metaphor for what we call a home-made, the original sounds like a “shoulder holster”)

VALUE: Selection against the background of the crowd. What distinguishes you from other guys that she could find – your Interesting, superiority, the ability to entertain, the knowledge of interest to women like pieces of horoscopes, tests and predictions, “women want to learn from men”, “power over her world,” lead among men. Also includes external value – social proof ( «reputation in society”), the leader of their group, is attractive to others.

Solution: The study demonstrate the high value of rutin (DHV), games on social proof as a musical instrument, its subordination to themselves and their reality, and not vice versa.

Emotional intimacy: romance, a special relationship, the possession of a quality that stirs her emotions and focuses it on you. When you’re laughing together, or at the same time saying the same thing. Generality. It may also include such emotional qualities as compassion, caring, sensitivity, presence of tender, loving traits. Dedication to one another in secret, which previously did not tell anyone.

Decision: Clarification of values (eliciting values) for the Style, the history of the vulnerability, the tactics of “me too”, to allow her to try on (over the situation, I think so – way down and release.) Themselves.

OBJECTIVES: is not determined by what you do, and that is capable of doing. Success is not mandatory, just a smooth path to it. Objectives. Dream. Lust for Life. And not just ambition and potential. Women as A & R Scouts (staff recording companies, looking for new talent – approx. Trans.). Perhaps creativity. Stability.

Solution: Define your identity today, whom you want to be in 5 years, and how to achieve this.

AUTHENTICITY (we usually called the congruence – approx. Trans.): This means that how you present yourself outside, corresponds to what you are inside. This is a man who is happy and enjoy myself. However, in real life there are contrasts, and this is normal. And, the possession of duality or contradiction, or the complexity of nature makes you more priyatyagatelnoy and rich personality.

Solution: This is the last step. This is a real right inner spirit. This skill. And the most attractive of all the eight qualities.

Self-esteem: confidence, which is the highest ranking behavior (a feisty and fun, not needy). Lack of fear to take their place in the world or someone’s time. “I just bent the world under him. Dignity. Lack of despair. Have your own opinions and stick to it, even if it conflicts with her opinion, but at the same time not afraid to admit their wrong, if indeed it is.

Solution: Success. Auto-training. Self-correcting body language and control framework “(referring to the concept of” framework “in NLP – approx. Trans.)

Palm – one of the richest parts of the nerve endings of the body. And it means – working with the palm, you refer directly to the brain is a partner, including the most intimate and deep emotions. True, huh?

Our everyday lives are filled with daily activities. Boring mode, standard exercises and postures, familiar environment, bored environment and the role of communication – form the perception of the world, adjusting the work of the brain at a certain (often – not the most successful) way. The effectiveness of communication, the opportunity to live a bright and decent life, to solve the most difficult tasks – are directly dependent on the ability of the brain to use its reserves, functioning in the most unexpected modes. Additional Resources mentality, flexibility and productivity of the brain are needed in seduction, business, career and sport. And these resources have everyone – but many are blocked by laziness, lack of practice, education, and limiting beliefs, traumas and negative experiences.
Features of the body and the soul of a man who daily sees the same thing, performing similar, often boring, monotonous action on algorithms that are small. After the usual set of gestures, words and thoughts, attitudes limits the creative possibilities, forming a very small number of “ossified” connections between nerve cells in the brain.
But for successful communication and seduction is often a need for flexibility and originality in conjunction with a partner – at least for the fact that to avoid stereotypes of others, to feel her (his) true self, to stand out from the crowd a gray mediocrity. Then a set of standard gestures and phrases will not do …
In order to “enable” hidden reserves of the human psyche Different methods and techniques – sports and travel, psychedelic drugs and esoteric practices, special equipment and unusual situation. These methods allow us to use those muscles and nerves, structure of the brain and the subconscious level, that normally are not used, are suppressed.
One of the powerful techniques of influence on the person – kinesthetic interaction. Kinesthetic effects (effects directly touching the body) – the oldest (but very inhibited in modern humans) form of communication. Bodily sensations already appear in the most primitive of mollusks, and worms – in the course of evolution they emerged much earlier than vision and hearing. So, the sensations experienced by the body, are perceived much more ancient – hence, more powerful levels of the psyche.
Touching the body of the partner (the word “partner” will be called every person with whom you communicate), we deploy the most ancient, formed hundreds of millions of years ago, the instincts and the program of empathy and support, fear and obedience, trust and vzaimoprityazheniya. Bodily sensations are always closely linked with emotions and mood. Visual and auditory signals are well controlled by consciousness, but the body does not lie. We can deceive ourselves and the partner’s beautiful and clever words, create an attractive appearance and image, provide a vivid visual image, but create a false sense of very complicated. Similarly hard to create both conscious and subconscious protection from emotional impact of touch. Can doubted the veracity of the words and the sincerity of the vote, to form a powerful barrier against intellectual manipulation, but a sensitive, skillful touch easily destroy all meaningful protection, far-fetched beliefs and social roles.
Urban civilization with its sedentary lifestyle and a host of social conventions inhibits motor activity. Formal and unwritten rules of decency limit the ability of physical contact with another person. And it means – virtually any non-standard for the human touch of our culture – this is already a powerful break the usual pattern of perception. But a strong sharp break pattern, unusual sensations, as we know, leads to a state of trance. Namely, in a light trance and occur deep understanding, the best seduction and most successful training.
Thus, the physical impact on another person can run deep and very ancient mechanisms for understanding, strongly affects the emotions, can “circumvent” the protection of the subconscious of even the most harmful and bitchiness partner and, of course – powerful and completely free “kryshesnos” giving key to a very interesting and useful to states.
Only trouble is – we live in a culture that for many historical reasons, is not desirable to most physical contact – especially between a man and a woman. “Taboo” and prohibitions on touching lie so deep in the subconscious, that many do not even think about their existence. So gently scratched or roughly hug your favorite girl or a tired fellow desirable – may be very wrong to understand. However, there are several available, and even officially encouraged by the society of bodily contact, including – among unfamiliar people. And above all – massage.
Massage can be ordered to call any contact with the body of another person, which made for a specific purpose and structure of the body is not destroyed (if the body is deformed, it is not massage, manual therapy or torture:). Massage arose from time immemorial – the first therapists may be called already rubbing against each other primitive jellyfish. Touches to certain parts of the body from the time of the dinosaurs symbolized a threat to animals, erotic excitement, interest …
Many of the techniques demonstrated by therapists, we can observe already in communion monkeys and rodents, elephants and predators. Animals “trampling” and razminayut legs are tired or sick body relatives.
Thus, the benefits of massage in communication – in general:
The first – an appeal to the very ancient mechanisms of the mind and instincts of another person, which are badly mind control.
Second – to influence the state of the body, health and emotions of the partner. Simultaneously, we produce both physical and mental effects.
The third – a free, powerful and spontaneous trance, which brings pleasure to your partner, and usually does not cause resistance.
Fourth – the achievement of the minutes of such contact, mutual understanding and rapport, which would require a massage without a clock, or even days and months.
And seduction – specifically:
Massage allows you to quickly and easily get close with your partner, arrange a powerful “kryshesnos and profitable stand out from the crowd, to overcome the many barriers that arise in the ordinary intercourse, and of course, to understand what truly feels and experiences the other person. Many of the massage movements themselves sexy. Acute emotions, deep rapport and new sensations – it is always great! And appear before the lovers in the role on a strange (of course, the ancient and secret … Hush!) Technology – the same super-abilities!

top rules of seducing...

Common feature of these games one – they work, are working well and all. For the application of these techniques not necessarily be an expert in NLP, know by heart the Kama Sutra and ability to fly without a parachute. These techniques work for regular folks that wants something so much that they took the trouble to try.
Method One: “Closer – Read More”

Favorite technique of the female sex. But this does not mean that females are immune to this technique. The essence of this method is quite simple: The concerned young man, keep it to yourself. For what purpose was a guy with a hold – is not important. The method is used as follows: first, “Closer”. This may be hints of the bed, flirting, not rolling limits of decency. This creates attraction between man and woman, a kind of binding. Once a man begins to think that he got this woman should be “more”. Method for using “more” is very diverse. Usually, this is a game: “I should think, or part of the game” Dinamo “. In the latter case can be replayed disturbance, passing in “righteous anger”. There may be other options. This alienates men from the women themselves.
If a woman is interested in a man (and these games are played only with the right people), then after some time to be a new stage of “Closer”. Usually the second phase of “Closer” from the man asked to complete a minor or major service. The essence of this technique is simple: to keep himself useful about her rights, not giving him anything, except advances and pushing his imagination to self-deception.
Method number two: “The pendulum”
The method is based on the B-D, but the main goal – the seduction of women, using their passion for B-D. Using the technique: first motivates a man or a woman makes one think that it interested him. It’s not important. It is important that first period is “closer”. For example, one week for the first “closer”. This is quite enough to understand further the desirability of continuing the game. Then the man makes the “NEXT”. Implementation can be different – from complete disappearance of the week from a field of view, to the apparent cooling of the woman at 50 degrees. At this point, a woman will try to make a “closer” – because she is playing this game and, in its conception, the time for “more” does not come. In this situation the main stand and not go on about her “closer”, not “kupitsya” to advance and play in their “NEXT”. Stage “further” should be approximately the same duration with a step “closer”, for example, for a week each.
The second swing of the pendulum again starts with the “closer”, but this phase continues, for example, 5 days. This is followed by a five-day stage of “NEXT”. Then, with hesitation, for example, three-day phases. Then one day. And then the game can be terminated. At the last (last) pendulum woman would be in full dissonance, because the man with one hand in front of her, on the other – does not play her game. It will apply the “closer” during the “forward” men, and, observing a certain pattern – the less effect on men conceived it closer, the closer it really would be.
So, the time for which the pendulum and is engaged – to catch the maximum “closer” women and dirty to use it. For example, sleep with her.
Method Number Three: “Needle”
This is our development, located in the testing stage. The technique has been used only five times and gave a positive result in four of them. The method is a special case of the B-D in combination with a gap pattern, no other relationship has yet been found.
The method is applied as a means of shaking the long-term relationships that have become boring. Your girl thinks he can take you on the neck. But forget about one thing – to sit on the neck, to spread her legs.
Description of technique: a man and a woman have any relationships that have fallen over the brink of bed. For example, take the situation where the IGLU uses man, just beginning to shake conceited woman. But I am convinced that this technique works in both directions, so no restrictions on the use, I do not think so. In addition to general checks on environmental friendliness, of course. So, while a man plays in the advanced “Closer” – his relationship with a woman consist only of positive things for her. Later, for example, three months, when the relationship seems well established and the current woman in the right in its understanding of the channel should needlesticks. Moreover, the injection should be totally unexpected – and what it would be unexpected, the better the effect is manifested NEEDLES. The essence of the needle stick is to make a concentrated “forward”, and with the maximum possible for this woman’s intensity.
For each woman intensity selected individually. For one woman the maximum intensity will be the word “bitch podzabornaya” in her address, but for a different limit may be the slap and an apparent breakdown in the relationship. I repeat – a shot should be as verified for each woman, and not to cause irreparable harm to her psyche. Injection should be on the verge of a foul. Moreover, injection should be located in the shortest period of time – for example, 2-3 hours. The amplitude of the injection should grow from nothing to a peak and then just as abruptly subside. Sufficient condition for reducing the amplitude of the injection to zero is total confusion and disorientation women. Immediately after the needle stick, the maximum – after 4-8 hours, you need a woman to apologize for his “inappropriate behavior” and “make amends” to her. The best option would be to call the morning after the evening injection.
Impact of injection: a woman realizes that she still did not recognize you until the end. She understands that you can teach her more surprises in the future. It is shaken and starts to think about improving your relationship or finally goes, if a shot was too strong. (This was the fifth case.) Maybe it is recommended as a means to break the relationship? The amplitude of the injection site should seek to minimize a minimum time of your relationship. This is due to the general inertia of the human psyche. Thus, the more time you have a policy of closer, the more can be your needlesticks. The total resultant line of your relationship will return to a positive direction very quickly.
Technique Number Four: Communication “B-D” methodology “plus-minus”
This technique is used in conversations as a means to make good progress compliment. The essence of this technique – contrast. First, minus the man says, then – plus. Plus on the emotional impact should be much higher minus. As an obvious error – the design it in style: “This is the classroom at that ass girl! But yours did, too. Correct thing would be to make a compliment to the style of Arab poets: “It is hunchbacked and deaf: but the owner of the camel with its beauty can conquer all.” Full scope for creativity.

Feel like a lion

Have you ever watched a lion in the eye? He felt weak? … This is what happens with the gazelle. Believe me, this is what happened to a woman if it looks man-lion.

Somehow, one good day, my friend, we decided to walk. We just missed a free drink or two. So we walked and enjoyed remembering old stories of our lives. We walked and chatted, enjoying our wonderful Whiskey White Castle … While we were walking, smoking a cigarette just fine Philip Morris … … Suddenly, his eyes narrowed as his eyebrows were lower, and he said: “Excuse me, Joe …
And then he went up to this stunningly beautiful woman in an elegant dress. I watched them close, he chatted with her, as if they had known each other for eternity! And they exchanged business cards. (She gave her phone – GB) He gently took her hand and winked at me (probably telling that he does not want to leave me alone), and they kissed on the cheek. Well, not bad!
When he returned, I said: “This is your old friend?”
He replied: “old friend? No, I met her for the first time … ”
What ?!!!» My eyes narrowed, expressing great confidence.
“Yes! I just met her for the first time … Hell, you do not believe me? ”
“Damn, boy! Yes, that I failed. How did you do it? ”
“This is – a mystery – he said, grinning an evil smile.”
“Oh, please, man, tell me …”
“Well, Joe” – he said, making it an excellent drink whiskey White Castle. He took a little longer, then pulled up to me and asked …
“Joe, you ever had a lion?”
“Hmm? Uh …. No. I’m going to become a vegetarian ”
“Oh no, not this brake! Leo, you know, a lion! ”
“Leo? You mean an animal? ”
“Yes!”
“Hmm … no … I, of course, has long been a man, but as far as I remember … No”
He laughed uproariously … His voice is almost filled the entire bar … and even a drop of whiskey, looked at me.
“Joe, look. This is – like it … “- made a solid shot of whiskey,” … when a lion suddenly sees prey, he feels very happy … deep inside … … the ghazal is just looking at … gazelle. … You are Leo, looking to laugh … inside … deep inside … this is like … like … in liver, lungs, spleen … … pleasantly tickled from the inside, so he feels well, very well … Just watching the gazelle … “Yes, you’ve just seen enough programs in the animal world …” Ha-ha-ha – Ha! not-e-e-t! “It’s like … like when …” You – Leo “. and you suddenly see prey that is in your field of view. You know, it feels a lion?” You feel good, you are feel very well! “You know, like smiling lion?” This is when he feels very good, and before a smile, he licks his lips and the smile … the dazzling show fangs.
“He lit a cigarette, enjoying, exhaled smoke and wet my throat a long gulp of whiskey … and continued:” And you are still smiling from the great feeling inside you … you continue to lick your lips more and more … a little lick their fur mane … then … and Inside there is a little contented growl. You know, like a lion roars? ”
“Hmm … no … I think I was the man for most of the time, as far as I can remember. Of course, I can imagine … although … ”
“Well … it turns out so … the lion is a huge, huge sound inside the bag. When the air passes through the sound bag, get the sound so low that it actually makes the whole body vibrate. This is similar to when you say, and the sound seems to arrive … somewhere deep limits of your stomach … and with every sound that you speak, your whole body completely resonates … ”
“Good”
“Yes … and now, look at the eyes of a lion on the gazelle … come on … (and he pointed to another amazing beauty) … and the more you resist it, the more you become a lion … and feel very happy … come on … this is correct … ”
“Uh-huh Uh-huh”
“Well, now … look at this ghazal. Feel your body … and fluffy like the wind whistling in your mane … lick your lips … your eyebrows fall … and you can, of course, flashes of the wind blowing in his face … and it … liberates a powerful yawwwnnn …. HUNNNNGGGGG!!!! What you feel? You feel the vibration within your body during the growling? Yes-ah … It’s a wonderful feeling, is not it? ”
“Yes … YES! I feel VERY WELL! ”
“Okay, now … lick their fur … more … and look at this Ghazal … and now … growl. Go ahead … growl! ”
«GROWL (Growl )!!!!»
“Yes … growl! You – the lion, and not Mickey Mouse! Growl, damn it, growl! ”
«GRRROOOWWWWWLLLLLLLLL (all your body ranges from a powerful growling).”
“Yes-ah … now look at that gazelle again (and again he pointed to the astonishing beauty) … hmm … what do you feel?”

The secrets of touching

I’ll start by saying that the sooner I start to touch in the process of communicating with the girls, the more I realize that this is correct, and the more I am convinced how effective and useful this technique is.

Trends in seduction: Immediate touch, the importance of the first steps.
When I write, it is usually triggered by something that recently happened to me or what I have read recently. I am 100% confident in the material that I write and that it will give you.
CAUTION If you want to be a pioneer, this reading for you is dangerous!
Women want sex just as men. Individual tactics may be different, but ultimately desire the same – apart from everything else is delicious and sex.
I’ll start by saying that the sooner I start to touch in the process of communicating with the girls, the more I realize that this is correct, and the more I am convinced how effective and useful this technique in placing women in bed. That is my position this issue. In general, it would suffice to say that it should be used, simply because it works, and finish on this. But clever seducer wants to know why something works, something is not working and all that. This is my audience.
Before moving on to the essence of things, I want to give some simple terminology definitions.
“Immediate touch (Instant-kino)” – quite a special term. It means touching (kino), which you apply to the girl immediately after I met her, literally in the first couple of seconds. This applies to embrace his hand to his waist, easy unexpected touch to her buttocks, a light kiss on the cheek close to his lips. In special cases, and the lips.
“Kino” (kinesthetic – kinestetika) generally opredeyaetsya as any physical touching, any degree, at a time until you are dealing with a prostitute. Some have adopted a more profound definition, like the touch, specially designed to heat the girl to prepare her for sex, etc.
The importance of the first steps. First meeting:
Everything you do with any girl during your first meeting – it is very important. It is important because it sets the foundation for such things as:
1. What kind of person you are going to be.
2. What direction will be further meetings.
3. What it can and will expect from you.
Knowing this gives us longer enough information to suggest that “first impression” – one of the most important moments of seduction, which need to master. And even more than that. This gives us a time frame, something in the first three minutes.
It is my deep conviction that the first 1-4 minutes are crucial, since it is they who set the basis for the meeting. Next on the priority list goes remainder of the first meeting – this is the time during which the first impression created in the beginning of the meeting (the very same 1.4 minutes), is strengthened. Those hours you spend in the club, talking and touching each other.
Why kino is so important:
When I write about the “immediate touch, I often get letters with a question:” Is it so important – do it immediately, this is really so important? “And the answer is always the same:” Absolutely. ” But even more important to understand why you do it. If you’re doing something good, do it confidently, then you must believe, like most people, that what you are doing is actually correct and valuable, useful.
In classical pickup (seduction, it comes to Western schools – UnTonych) there are three psychological factors are clearly related to the active interaction between man and woman.
1. How well the source is responsible and ADOPTS ideas / thoughts / behavior, etc. (ie, laughing at stupid jokes, pays no attention to really stupid behavior, but also embraces and attempts to flirt convergence).
2. Type “joint social activities.” What is the commonality of interests. “Will it work we together?” People are looking for and gather the world’s recognition and appreciation of their external social units. Would give it to me this particular person confirmation and acceptance of my values? Are they like us?
3. Hidden Potential (that in Speed Seduction is called Maps Of The World). Man wants to know not only what he has at the moment, but also, what he can do under ideal circumstances and condition. Great things that we would have committed in life, if we had the chance, etc. person wants to receive significant evaluation not only that he is now, but to that which it can be.
To understand a quick look at paragraph 1.
Rule sounds simple, but this simplicity is deceptive. It refers to how easily and readily guy and a girl taking behavior and ideas of each other, especially in the first interaction. When a girl says to you, any garbage, shows some part of his personality, flirting with you, comments and all that, she wants to know and see that you are taking it easy, as she is behaving and acting. In the future you may even encourage it.
The importance of this lies in the fact that when a girl sees that you are indeed taking her thoughts and deeds, it will be, respectively, to continue this at future meetings with you. In other words, she not only sees you with it now and you with it in the future.
Remember this fact. Roughly speaking, this is the largest foundation of the first impression, and how it greatly affects its future meetings with you. To be exact, whether you have it any relationship.

We all have the power to seduce – the ability to attract people and keep them subordinate, but most of us are aware of this potential.
There are nine types of seducer. Each of them has a special feature of nature, which is rooted deep in its essence and irresistibly attracted others.
Sirens overflow of sexual energy and each of them knows how to use it.
Donzhuanovtsite insatiably crave the opposite sex and their desire is contagious.
Ideal lovers are sensitive to the aesthetics, which invested in romantic relationships.
Denditata love to play with their image and impress with their shiny manly.
Informal spontaneous and open.
Koketirashtite are egocentric and remarkably unperturbed by temperament.
Enchantress not only want but also know how to pleasure and feel good in society.
Harizmatitsite are endowed with unusual confidence in themselves.
Stars are airy and wrap in mystery.
And so, the process step by step seduction.

1. Select appropriate subject .-
This is one in whom there is nothing to fill, and who sees in you something exotic. The perfect victim has some quality in nature, they attract. Strong emotion caused by this quality will make your seductive moves more natural and dynamic.

2. Create a false sense of security – use roundabout ways. If at the beginning boldly attack risk the raising of the barrier. Initially not be issued with nothing alluring in themselves. Courtship should leave the side, not directly. Besides the periphery of its target – move with the aid of a third person or to give a kind that builds a neutral connection, as you pass gradually from friendship to love. Sleep the vigilance of his victim, until you feel safe – then strike.

3. Send mixed signals. –
Once you notice the presence you need to quickly possess the imagination of seduction purposes. Obvious and probably shocking to her attention at the outset, but could not hold him, so that ultimately more restrained behavior is more impressive. Try to look more mysterious. Send mixed signals – be sometimes raw, sometimes tender, sometimes elevated, sometimes terrestrial, sometimes innocent, sometimes sly. Patchwork of confusing and contradictory qualities of charm.

4. Presented as desired by all – built triangles. People tend to gravitate towards those who already have caught someone’s interest. So you should create around themselves the aura of a man or woman, wanted, wanted and courted by others. This will support the vanity of your site. To create the illusion that you are known and loved, is surrounded by representatives of the opposite sex – friends, former lovers, current suitor. Construct triangles of rivalry. Let your reputation speak for you – as so many others are fascinated, then it is grounded.

5. Create a need – and worrying nedvolstvo. Can not seduce pleased with everything. Therefore, if necessary, create in him a sense of dissatisfaction with the surrounding circumstances and the dissatisfaction with him. In this way you create space in which to appear as a response to the problem. Pain and anxiety are the most appropriate harbingers of pleasure.

6. Mastered the art of thin hint .- If you create too blatantly and obviously a sense of frustration, the victim can you understood the intention and will take a defensive position. But there is no protection against a hint of something – ideas skillfully sown in the minds of people by reference to something seemingly vague and ambiguous as to root only days later and it seemed to those people that is their idea. Hint is the perfect way to affect human beings.

7. Penetrate her mind –
Most people are imprisoned in their own world. The only way to vmaknesh into their shell to become susceptible to seduction is to proniknesh in their spirit. Play by their rules, rejoicing in their successes, share their joys. Thus tickle deep-rooted narcissism of every person. Soon you will be able to change roles. Once you entered the spirit of sacrifice, you can get it and it breaks into your – up there, rather than where to return.

8. Create temptation. –
If you let the object of their desire to cast a passing glance to the promised delights, will created such a temptation, which will help you quickly izminesh large part of the road to seduction. Find out what the endeavor, which has abandoned his fantasies hinted that able to bring it closer to the desired goal. The important thing is to keep everything in mystery. Award Show, postponed enjoyment and let his mind do the rest. Arouse curiosity stronger than the doubts and fears that accompany it, and sacrifice your own will follow.

9. Create tension – what will happen? Once people understand what they can expect from you, your magic was destroyed. Something more: they gave their power. The only way to lead by the nose and seduction to dictate terms, it is creating tension and well calculated surprise. Behave in a manner which causes the victim to you to wonder what you thought. If you do something not expected of you, it will deliver great pleasure it is surprised and can not predict what will happen later. Seduction thrilled with sudden changes in direction of things.

10. Sow confusion with the power of words. – It’s hard to get people to listen to them. They are consumed by their own wishes and thoughts and have time for yours. To hear them, you should just say what they want to hear. This is the essence of the language of temptation. Inflame the feelings of his goal with saturated phrases, caress her, soothing her there, kadeteo is uncertain, it obvey with fantasies, sweet words and promises – then not only will they listen, and you will lose your desire to oppose.

11. Give attention to small things. – Subtleties in seduction – the occasional gesture, improvisation – often more charm than anything else, and they provide better light. You have to learn how to recreate the object of your desires with countless small rituals – clever gifts, clothes and ornaments, which are his tastes, gestures, showing how much time and attention to his dedication. All his senses must be engaged in a myriad of small and beautiful things around him orchestrate. Get used to generating appropriate feelings and attitudes through small things.

12. Opoetiziray presence. –
Crucial things can happen when the object is alone. I came upon it and the slightest feeling of relief that they will close, everything is done. This reaction is usually the result of over-familiarity and simplicity. Therefore not be fully revealed. Make associations between himself and poetic images and objects so that when I think about you, they can see in the idealized light. The more intensively doing his thoughts, the more enticing things to you for your imagination. Nourishing imagination with inconsistency and volatility.

13. Disarming strategy through weakness and vulnerability. –
Do not overuse the maneuvers to avoid suspicions awake. The best way to prikriesh is to get to the other side thinks that they excel. If you create the impression that you’re weak, vulnerable to such an extent occupied by the purpose of prosecution, that no can be controlled, the actions you will look more natural and not so calculated. The more confidence you will win if predpochetesh openness to virtue.

14. Mix desire with reality – perfect illusion. –
If saumeesh to create such an illusion that through you the victim to experience their dreams, she’ll be forever obedient. The important thing is to start slowly, to win her trust, and gradually build a illusory world, satisfying the desires her focus to secret dreams have been thwarted or suppressed. Perfect illusion does not differ much from reality, but it also brings something unreal. Sabzlaznyavaniya water at that stage of confusion, which can not longer distinguish reality from illusion.

15. Isolate the object of your desires. – The isolated person is weak. Isolation may be psychological – like follow the field of seduction with a nice note, which give him, you push aside everything else on his mind. He only sees you and thinks only about you. Isolation may be physical – it only separated from his entourage of friends, family, home. This is the time to lure victims into their lair, where nothing is it known.

16. Prove to. –
Most people love to be seduction. If you have resisted it because they went far enough to allay their suspicions. Suffice it to predpriemesh an early action to win them. Do not worry, that may seem silly or wrong, because vskyako act performed because the object of your feelings, so I will conquer his feelings, it will not pay attention to anything else. Never be discouraged and not complain about someone’s stubborn resistance. Rather, the challenge.

17. Encourage return to the past.
Return the object of desire for the pleasant memories of childhood, being placed in the Oedipus triangle, but for him a place by the child, albeit there is a need for something. Without realizing the cause of their emotional reaction, he’ll fall in love with you. In turn, and you can be prenesesh in childhood, and allow the other person’s take on the role of caring and devoted parent. In both cases makes possible occurrence of heartfelt fantasy – an affair with mom or dad or a son or daughter.

18. Violate prohibitions and taboos. –
Especially tempting is to get the object of zhelenieto you feel that it can distort and encourage one and other. People yearn to know their dark side. Not everything in love is expected to be soft and gentle – give to understand that you’re hiding something cruel, even sadistic in themselves. Do not respect age differences, marriage vows, family ties. Once the desire to violate prohibitions push you to the site you will hardly could stop him. Do so to reach farther than imagined and shared sense of guilt and sazaklyatnichestvo will create a strong connection.

19. Use spiritual temptations. –
Everyone has doubts and hesitation – the figure for its importance for their sexuality. If you want to seduce just physical, these doubts will wake up and get your site to worry and be close to him. Therefore do so, that man forgets fluctuations and to focus on something sublime and spiritual – a religious experience, a work of art, something occult. Claimed almost divine qualities, pretended to be dissatisfied with the worldly temptations, speaks to the stars, the fibers which they associate with the object of seduction.

20. Garnished pleasure with pain. –
The biggest mistake of Lovelace is to always be very careful. Initially, the kindness and generosity you will be adorable, but then will become monotonous. If too much staraesh to joy and pleasure to convey some uncertainty. Rather than smother the site with courtesy, try to cause him some pain. Change direction by making it lose interest. This will confuse him will make him feel guilty and insecure. Even the staged separation, to feel the pain and emptiness. Then go back, apologize to arise again, loving and caring … and a woman or man who offended, will soften and directly from otmalee pleasant surprise.

21. Leave space for his fall – is persecuted persecutor. If the object of interest you get used to your aggressiveness, it will damp less energy from themselves and the link voltage will diminish. You have to postresnesh by changing roles. Once you yield to temptation, otegli a little back and he will go after you. Began to shut themselves in, give a signal that is bored. This will create the suspicion that you need. Facility will soon wants to have any physical restraint and will evaporate. The aim is to make him fall into the arms of your own volition. Create the illusion that seduces seductive.

22. Use physical temptations. Beware of sites awake thinking – if you understood the manipulation, it will suddenly overwhelmed doubts. Gentle calming his mind asleep and wake up his senses, and combine behavior without a trace of Defense with the presence of powerful sexual charge. I do not want physical closeness with force.

23. Mastered the art of courageous moves. -The time is come: the sacrifice they desired, but not yet ready to recognize it, still less to act independently. Now it’s time to forget about gallantry and coquetry and to obey with bold moves. Give the victim time to consider the consequences; create conflict, forced tension, and courageous move to bring you great relief.

24. Be alert to the consequences. –
Dangers lurking successful seduction. Once you reach the climax, emotions often take as a pendulum to the opposite direction – towards apathy, distrust, disappointment. Beware of broaching a long farewell – seized by uncertainty in itself, the victim will grip you in all forces. If you need to divide, sacrifice quickly and suddenly. If necessary, deliberately break the charm, which you created. Never let another person to be too sure about you – they can accept as a given. Use absence to cause pain, create conflict, seduced by to keep you in constant tension.

Ridiculous methods of seducing a woman

1. Many believe that it is very nice to messy money left and right – I hope that terrible girl would be impressed by this and will immediately become your forever. In a variant is understood that the money already in pocket. However, where they will take them into an ordinary student – no one knows.

But this is not the most important issue. The bad thing is that even if your pocket is swelled with lizards – most of all, the story ends with that type of girl you meet “dynamo” that they will deploy to such an amount as possible. In which its objective is to obtain as many material goods, without giving you anything in return. And Be confident that she will forget the moment when your finances will not allow you to keep.

Of course, not all girls are like that. Of course, the possession of money is better than their absence. But the lure consisting solely of money peck most notably “dynamo” with all ensuing consequences. I’m afraid that is true proverb: “Money is, no luck. By itself, your financial situation will not bring you happiness in the family (and sex!) Life – this must be added something else to succeed.

2. You can try to overload the poor girl with intelligence. There are, of course, likely that the girl will immediately fall into hypnotic state by the abundance of incomprehensible words and will be completely helpless under the pressure of “seductive”. We can also to deny that intelligence is most pronounced male secondary sex! But much more likely danger is that the girl to eat povazhitila on scholarship of adolescents and will eventually understand what it wants from it.

This approach has only one positive point: the girl will necessarily separate from its known common host such erudite idiot and will sometimes call him to help her to doreshi a crossword.

3. Some people prefer to pretend that they do not respond to a female presence. No, not in the sense that men respond to – and, for example, as was shown in the good old American comedy “In jazz there are only girls:” Sorry, dear, but for my entire life and until now I never did anything I to feel when the girl kiss me. ”

4. Some believe that seduction is no more effective way than to arouse the female jealousy – and the man starts, not too intrusive, but half seriously courted his girlfriend liked the lady. Probability that the lady will not tolerate such injustice, and soon will ask myself to show the man “who is who” was big enough – but only in this case, if her husband is originally liked to say as a sexual partner.

5. Pay particular male, and not experienced at the time of sexual maturation romantic nonsense and their complexes, considered as the best occasion for acquaintance, save the girl from a (real or mythical) threatening her method is hardly effective, even if accidentally, in any circumstances be obtained by itself. As a consistent approach, it provides a guaranteed complete failure of “Operation Seduction”.

The work is not even and that you will need to constantly keep fit and sophistication to master the methods of single combat. Many girls are just a hazard to life – a little. Finally, to you it will be necessary to invent and prepare these hazards yourself …

6. Some believe that the best way to impress a girl during the relationship is to nameknesh their significant relationships or noble origin. “Children of Lieutenant Schmidt” are now in vogue, but the demand for “descendants” of Pushkin, Gogol and Griboedov, but also the media Gentlefolk titles, as if not interrupted.

The method is good for luring mladichki and very inexperienced virgins who will be disinclined to agree to look at your “genealogichesko tree,” “family jewels and trinkets etc. (which you still have to obtain advance!), Sitting on your” antique “sofa. Well, a sofa, he’s work is clear, is not intended for this to sit on it …

Superb work invitation “to see our ancestral sword.

7. There are also “Lovelace” that the best way to drive a lady in bed, consider placing the lady on the hand and heart. Once I watched an American talk show in which guests were guys in the group “Four Centaurs. There they decided to compete in seduction. Who offend, it gets plus points. The more girls you turned, the greater your account. Which has a maximum score – he grabs the prize.

And they show how these guys in the seduction univermaga (with them in America, this is the ideal place for acquaintance). Methodologies of places were primitive and ugly to shame: as a rule, they used the loading on that he seemed “to ears fell in love with her and wants her to become his wife. Rough and poshlo, but … do it!

An interesting moment comes when the next day all those downloaded girls invited them into the studio and told them that they had working with professional seducer. The girls started to make the kind that are so “cute and dosetlivi” – as if they are understood as all those thingy and behold these men tricks they “know them by heart” the insidious tempter and nothing will happen.

Only question: “Why did you knew all this before, gave us the real phone?” – They did not replied, embarrassed and roared. So right! Then especially in absentia, the girls are still just as smart, but I see in ordinary life are not so profound, especially if they speak such beautiful words.

“Only an idiot not to use such an effective tool, as the promise of marriage” – A. Yahontev wrote the book “Book of Life for fools.” Here I disagree with him and I myself do not use it. But that does not mean that such a method does not work – it means that personally for me it is unacceptable. It is possible that such a method and really is not bad, but I leave it to the most extreme case! It is not too delicate and unfortunately, you almost deprived of the opportunity to play in reverse.

How your eyes can seduce a woman

Contact with the eyes is one of the most powerful means of seduction, which is often overlooked. But given that 55% of communication is done without words, this technique may prove very important in creating a lasting impression.

“The main components of eye movements are easy to control once they grasp the logic once. Follow these four simple steps to make sure you always use your eyes perfectly and with a stunning effect,” advises communication experts and body language Elizabeth Kunka.

First step: detection of the other person’s eyes is the first step towards tethering of conversation and create a positive impression. Throw short, but frequent glances at the target, if that person you look back and hold him, then gives you “permission” to approach him and to imagine.

Read: Long eye contact while talking. Look at the average interlocutor should last three seconds, but it increased to five, emphasize their interest in a person. Attention by displaying and demonstrating concern, you not only drive the opposite side to feel important, but are seen as attractive.

Maximum effect: Given that the eyes are the first thing we noticed at the first meeting and focuses attention during a conversation, it is very important that they look best.

Enlarged eyes: large eyes make people more attractive. Make sure your eyes appear larger by raising eyebrows and a slight bend eyelid, a technique that Hollywood beauties such as Marilyn Monroe used to stunning effect.

Everywhere we read that to be successful in creating attraction should have high rank, good inside game, good body language, we are confident, etc.

For many, these are abstract concepts, it is easy to say: you must have this, this and this …. But how to acquire? Your saying all day: “I am confident” will hardly help you much. Wonder the game is a reflection of life in other fields, you can not look negatively on their lives and those around you and be successful in his truck. Because the game starts not at the moment you open the set, but long before that. Stop for a moment to read and think: the way you do one thing in life you do everything else. If you are someone who is easily denied when it encounters a difficulty, you think in the truck will not be the same? If you start one thing with enthusiasm and then reach a standstill, you start to rationalize why it occurs and to which the conclusion reached is that what you attach to your not worth it. It is too complicated for you … associated with emotional pain and effort … and it is easier to sit and do nothing. So you’ll have an excuse for inaction, but at the expense of it would spend his life and be content with what your parish from the other without using their full potential.
It is not easy to pick-up artist. If it was easy everyone would be. Is not as easy to millionaire. It is not easy to achieve every goal that is worth … Because the real things in life require time and effort. And require dedication. Easily you can learn some new opanar, some cool and rutin can achieve a good response from some set. And then? What you always go out. If you’re nowhere, at the moment that the material you do, you will show that you nowhere. If your belief is just a cover, it will understand. You can not escape from himself. But you can change yourself. Slowly, gradually had progressed a little each day. How long will you need? Is not it though? Even if you say that you are needed for many years, it will make you quit and spend his life in misery?
Firstly, ask yourself who you are? What do you want to accomplish in your life? What are your goals in the next few months? And in the next few years? What exactly are you looking for? Confidence comes from knowing what you want to know what you value that you contributed for the good of the people around you that gives them of their positive energy and mood. That you are bringing them into your world where they feel good. And those things that you give must be inexhaustible. Imagine that you are going to give someone one million leva. Would you insecure? Not sure. Because you know that this man will win from you. Whose rank will be higher? Your course. Because it gives. Now imagine the opposite case: that you are going to ask him something. How would you feel? Hesitatingly and embarrassing, right? Because it depends on his favor. Unfortunately, most men who zagovaryat women feel this way. The world we live in, advertising, media, predisposing us to seek an approval from the other addition. Our sense of value, our entire system of values is required from the outside. That’s why we are so afraid of disapproval and otsvirvane. Because we assume that the voice of a woman who does not even know us is more valuable than our own. And how can a man who for twenty years has been programmed to think and compelled thereby to change. With hard work and effort. This is not a single day.
When you go outside to zagovaryash girls, first you have to say is that today you will not care what others think about you. That you came to give the best of yourself, love all the people who will speak. That the world is cool and pleasant place, people love you and you kefiat. And whatever happens, you will keep your good mood. That women want to be with you, just looking for that occasion. And you have to give them that opportunity. Why deprive them of themselves, something they want so much? Just go and make them speak … Women are very good at it, to capture what is your inner state. They seem to have radar for it. Only by how you spoke them from your broadcast, they perceive how you deal with every area of life. They want to feel your personality, who you are and whether you strong enough to trust you. When you feel that a man on the spot, they will relax and take your leadership. This is the path to success.