LTR

What is the fundamental difference between the approaches of relations “at night” or “long time”? In ecological? So it should be everywhere at the height … more pressing issue is building relations.

First, let me give a model of relations for Leslie Cameron-Bandler:
1. Introduction.
2. Habituation. In this stage people learn a lot about each other: the habits, preferences, characteristics, partner – is a world that is so interesting to know! This stage is the most full of pleasant emotions, is characteristic of the state of love and connection to the partner.
3. Expectations. “Hu what he knows everything that I love, he loves me and all my life everything will be done for me …” familiar? And the claim – as if I told her something must …
4. Disappointment. Logical conclusion of expectations. Sooner or later it will occur …
5. Threshold. Gap.
So, the secret of a good many mutually agreeable relationship is simple – to always be on the stage of addiction. It seems to be all easy … tear patterns, do it “closer-farther, sometimes arrange a quarrel – so, for the prevention of … On the other hand, if you bend the stick, it will be too badly: a girl, all while being in a trance – not a gift … Empirical it was found that enough times (from 3 days to 2 months. depending on the girl) to organize her display of new items from his collection, and it will be at the stage of addiction as long as necessary … and will always love … Excellent True? It remains her to teach you to do the same thing – and you are to a great age to be envied around – your love will burn happily ever after.
Now a little more about the pick-up “at night” … From my recent practice: acquaintance, picked up the phone, pulled out for a walk, sex, disappeared … again appeared in a couple of weeks, broke the pattern qualitatively, sex again, she is ecstatic declaration of love … More — more … In this case at some point stabilizing relations are beginning to appear more often at the same time do not let her get used to a different unexpected antics (now appearing in the night with flowers, it will make do in a minibus that prinarodno do not, invent something else). A “starred” it strategy “at night” …

Fall in love

You already asked this question? Then we have for you a magnificent plan of action, proven by years of experience and even numbered. Read carefully.
Good day, my friend. Today we’ll discuss one interesting thing – both fall in love with a girl? What is it? By and large, this state, when the girl all the time thinking about you and to your person is experiencing lots of good emotions.
The key word here – the emotions. Yes, yes, falling in love – is an emotional process. So do not get the young lady in love with you, picking his nose and leading boring conversations about football or drinking bouts with his comrades.
So how do you fall in love with a girl? Oh, we have for you a magnificent plan of action, proven by years of experience, which works just for all two hundred and fifty per cent. Read carefully.
1. Mandatory element of success – is “kryshesnosy”, that is romantic and pleasant. Unexpected behavior. This can be anything – to watch the sunset, admire the aurora, meow on the roof, playing snowballs, run a race in the rain, or even hang out among the participants role-playing games. Remember that the goal kryshesnosa – create new, good emotions, which are immediately associated with your personality.
2. Do little unexpected gifts. Forget about obyazalovku like roses on a date, or there day lovers – let it boring guys that are predictable. Just for no reason. I am sure that she no one gave a teddy Dracula:) Remember that the gift should be small, funny and completely useless.
3. Play in a magical game called “closer – more”. It is described on this site. So not worth comment.
4. Once you become predictable – you’ll be boring. So Get used to different ways to respond to the same word. For example, today the phrase “went to the movies!” You happily agreed, and tomorrow – offers to go drink some tea.
5. You must have a wonderful, orgasmic, explosive and more sex. Well, what do you want? The best way to fall in love with a girl – it takes love to her. Where and how do you know about this more – for example, in the section of our forum under the name of “sexology”.
6. Down with the routine! There is nothing worse than a quagmire of family life, when the two of you rake mold of harmony and joy in urns collect stale smile. Once you have become “official” couple, continues to conduct unexpected entertainment, hiking and hangouts. Remember – a girl with you every day should be interesting, but not “as usual skukota.
At the end of this article, I’ll tell you one simple observation. Girls go to the left in only one case – they got bored. You see my point? It’s boring in bed and bored in the house. Understand that if all the fun – you’ll look at each other with loving eyes as much as you like, giving each other the joy of communication and the magic of this relationship. Is not that every man wants and every girl?
Good luck! Now you know how to fall in love with a girl!

Relation ship advice

Once you learn to attract a woman, you will want to know about that will be particularly interesting. Something that is, in fact, love. How to learn to hold the girl next to him for some time.

Something that is, in fact, love.
How to learn to hold the girl next to him for some time.
Hey, can you even meet someone who would like to spend the rest of his life.
And although I am almost an entire book devoted to how to get acquainted with a woman, I feel that it would not be complete if I did not say, at least a few ideas on how to attract a woman for a long time.
But first, try to understand why relationships are breaking down:
When you start to meet with someone who you really like, the body releases certain chemical combinations that literally can be called a drug. These chemical elements cause a desire to be with this person all the time, to remain day and night to speak with him and having sex with this man three times a day.
But in 12-18 months, these chemical elements vary. Narcotic elements are replaced with “stable”. “Stay-all-night-not-leave-sex-three-times-per-day” would be changed to “settle down-have-two-children-and-buy-estate” elements. Understand this. (If you want to better understand the process, read the book “Alchemy of Love and Lust” Krenshou ( “The Alchemy of Love and Lust” by Crenshaw).
And now that you know about this, as you refrain from that relationship is not transferred to the category of “All for the sake of the family”?
Well, the short answer is to continue the fun, interesting, unpredictable behavior. Notice details. Be sensitive.
Here, some of the things I taught life: If you want to receive more than to give, then play the stock market. In fact, if you want to get a lot probably, you have to give even more.
Most people are selfish, and they say “I’m not going to give more than take in return.” But instead of getting a lot, they get old age and misfortune. I realized that much better to pay a ton, and get much in return, not caring that I gave more than he took, than to give little or nothing and get little or nothing in return.
Relationships – this is not the same as investing. If you need a lot, be prepared to pay even more. But in the end it’s worth it. Because the love and attention, and humor, and fun – this is not the same thing as money. If you give them, you will not become less. You will be more. Understand?

David De Angelo

Forget the girl

Probably no one guy on earth who would be in my life have never heard the phrase: “Let’s stay friends”, “You’re too cool for me,” We’d better leave “and other such variations. It does not matter on what grounds – adultery, she found someone better, or simply lost interest. If someone has never cast a girl, or that he was lucky, or it is not entirely heterosexual:)
This paper will also be useful to those who have unrequited love, or unhappy love story, those who are tormented by the question “how to forget a girl” or “how to get ex-girlfriend.” What can I do to return the girl? I’ll tell you one thing – there is only one way. It is rather complicated and at the same time very simple.

Must divide. At least half a year. Throw it out of my head, to remove her photos from the bedside table and a mobile phone screen, remove it from one.lv and even wipe her phone number, write it down on paper. Put away that piece of paper into the far corner, she’ll still need, but still you should not resemble anything about her. Thoughts about the past should not distract you. Because all this time you will change.

Sit down and analyze what it does not suit you. For some items you lose another. “I have no time for relationships,” “We do not fit together,” “I’m not ready for something serious” – all her excuses. Think of it, if you were invited to meet your ideal of feminine beauty, and you would have been very busy, would you refuse it? Ha-ha, of course not!

Well, surely you understand that you need to develop and improve themselves. I recommend to change in all spheres of life. To improve the appearance, serious attention to sports and fun to dress, move up the career ladder, to travel, try their hand at new field – may begin to play the guitar or paint, to do something before you did, make many new friends, make a lot of crazy -actions – to jump spontaneously to leave at night with friends in another city, to withdraw in the crowd or commercial, to try scuba diving. Read the materials at this site. Maximize your RMES. Do the minimum mission FTOW, sleep with  ten other woman. Each of them must be something better than your ex, interesting in communication, nice face, slim figure, or more successful in their careers. Live all the time in his kicks.

Six months later, changed, just call her and offered to meet. She would say “wow, how you’ve changed”, will behave differently and communicate with you, not as in your last meeting. Now, just to seduce her. It would be easy, I promise. Do you all to turn out – good luck!

10 things to know if she love you

If a girl on the phrase: “Do you love me?” Mysteriously silent, no need to hurry to take her silence for assent. In this article you will find a few signs that will be able to understand that it just leads you by the nose. If you feel the similarities, then you merge.

For you, life without this girl does not make sense. You live from one meeting to you to spend money without an account, you are ready to prove his love to her in all ways, including the removal of the moon from the sky … You’re sure that she, in turn, is not indifferent to you, but for some reason takes a strange indecision. You humbly waiting for, when, finally, it will give you the signal. And still no signal and no.

If a girl on the phrase: “Do you love me?” Mysteriously silent, no need to hurry to take her silence for assent. Here are a few signs showing that it just leads you by the nose.

1) She says she “loves you so.” If you think it is ethereal angel, it’s nothing. But if in your presence, she herself seemed disembodied angel – you have zero chance. The fact that she speaks with the word “love” – does not matter. Do not think that women differ from men more than a hamster on a tractor “Belarus”, but about “love” of different varieties of them, indeed, say ten times more frequently than men. If she loves you the same affection, a cat Banderas, singer Jennifer Lopez and Ice Cream “Pill” – you still too early to order wedding rings. If she persistently repeats that “loves you as a friend (brother, friend, grandfather, grandmother), a loud smack on the cheek and frowned contemptuously at any hint of sex – it means that you, of course, a nice guy, but it is from you feel sick.

2) She brings you something, it repels. After a pleasant evening in a restaurant, wine and languid music, it somlela and you were kissing under the moon all night until morning. Then you took her home, reveling in victory. But the next day discovered that you have not reached. When I met you, she is still sweet and cold, while trying to kiss her – is suspended and makes innocent eyes, so that soon you begin to feel that this night of love you just a dream. Creaking heart, you also start to behave with restraint. Then she suddenly becomes a surprisingly affectionate and makes a promising hints and tender regard to handle your shoulder. But should you believe her flirting and raznezhitsya with you again begin to be treated like a insolent puppy, get the habit to jump on the table for biscuits. Live with the sad truth: You just live for her trainer to the ability to flirt, expander, where it pumps up their skills to deceive.

3) It does not gives you or otdarivaetsya trifles. Gifts – a very important indicator of the level of relations between people. Not so bad at the New Year banquet to present the director’s wife lace bra, how to get from his lady on Valentine’s Day box of paper clips or “Help young atheist. If gifts are not intimate – relationships are not intimate. If the answer to your gifts of love, she teaches you little thing under the motto “Do not spit at me – I give you some use” should be, it does not really seek to bring you joy and hint at the possibility of other, more sweet, gifts. If you are her gift to the spirits, and she to you – the cud, or you to her – her picture in the pink bathing suit, underwear, and she’ll Chinese diary – it means that you for it to mean no more than a neighbor on the porch.

4) In your quarrels you always ask for forgiveness first. Suppose your bunting as honorary co-driver at a speed of 120 km / h road map laid out across the windshield. You have escaped some of emotive expressions. Is it true that you are on the next day running to give her flowers and chocolates? And if it happen that you have been caught kissing her with some dudes, and this dude you will ruin your shoes all the hair, is it true that you will then implored her to “forget and forgive everything? And if she was late for a meeting and a half hours – not whether you find yourself in this ponesesh guilty and severely punished by deprivation of the right to keep her coat while she visits the ladies’ room? If your answer is “yes” – it means that your relationship can not be called equal. It simply does not value you.

5) Your relationship is a long time do not move off dead center. If you are frozen at the level of cinema and an amusement park “- this is the end. Even if you’re stuck at the stage of regular (once a week, on Fridays from 19:00 to 19:15) hurried sex in the locker room sports club – it is also impossible to call a full-fledged love affair. And if you do everything on its part to reduce the distance between you, and she quietly sabotaging all your efforts – this is a dangerous sign. Maiden’s indecision in this case – is a complicated and boring way of saying that she is not interested in you, and simply finds no reason to get rid of you. If she did not have six months to decide on the next step, perhaps, she did not do it ever … If you feel that you have long buksuete in one place, so the wheels you have something that strongly resembles a swamp.

6) It tells you about another man. Of course, you think that this is a sign of special trust between you. I humbly sit in the evening, crushing in his jealousy and listening to her left with a nose like a villain. You’re hoping that someday she will appreciate your loyalty and dedication, so favorably with lousy temper the hero of her novel, and fall in your safe embrace. If you came across a young lady with the “sacred fire” in her chest, she still will face you in a dramatic pose and will articulate its fascinating spiritual struggle: “I’m going to tear that feeling from my heart! I overcome this shameful weakness! I have a man who understands me and loves. The best bird in the hand is worth two in the bush, I must, I can, I’ll show … “- etc. Inform the amateur chamber music performances: all this means that you have for it – another girlfriend in front of which can be nice to suffer, now that the professional scene could not get through. Her heart belongs to another.

7) She calls you only when it is something from you need. Do you think that if she calls you a few times a week, then other evidence that she is in love with you by the ears, is not required. But if you remember, then each of you call begins with the phrase: “You could not have …” “And do you have?” And “Can you ask for …”. She even takes the initiative to periodically meet together to do something: to bring the cottage chair, fix a vacuum cleaner, to help it establish an integrated software package, “Make up a strategic purpose, or ease off rats in the cellar – a little romantic sessions for lovers? But she has never wanted to see you just like that, without some urgent matter. You’re proud of what you need it. Well, it’s true, you’re for it – Money for service bureau, taxis and loan bank in one bottle. But the love here is not with it, it just nice to sit on your neck.

She laughs at you. Your girl does not miss a chance to hone his writing, already sharp as a razor, tongue or zalivisto laughs, when in her presence, someone else is practicing their wits on your growth, jobs, nose jobs, the amount of money and original hair styles your mom? Do not think that it is just so cheerful and mischievous, and that mocking word – this is just vibrations of air that does not cost anything, but in my heart it you gently and tenderly loves. Love – the grave for a sense of humor. Judge for yourself: if someone in your presence say, that your love is like Winnie the Pooh, which forced a pedicure – you do not become happy cackle, and is absolutely insulting on the offending organ. And if she calmly and even with enthusiasm allows others to laugh at you and she does not lag, it means that she does not only likes, but not respect.

9) She shows interest in you only if you feel that you can escape from it. While she is confident in your crazy love, she does not even try to pretend that you need it. She wipes his feet on you and insults you in front of your friends. Blind man can see that your love is hopeless. At some point you have to humble ourselves and determined are sending a brutal tormentor to hell (of course, not loud at all honest people, as did a bow-legged cowboy in a dusty hat, and himself alone with the fifth a beer). You stop chasing that ice queen, getting to know a pretty GIRL and slowly begin to feel better. It may be your fatal love calls you herself, and solemnly declares that you broke up into small pieces of her tender heart. In severe cases, it had declared to you at home, it is absolutely on the cheeks or in the innocent and the assistant will mysteriously hinting at suicide. Flattered, you quickly return to their former position at her feet. Do you think that once she’s jealous of you, it means she loves you. But in reality, it’s not jealousy, it’s a healthy instinct Kulak brazen possessive.

10) It is absolutely not concerned about your career. It is bad when a woman is interested exclusively in the financial status of his men. Even worse, if at all they are not interested. Unselfishness loving woman is fundamentally different from the indifference of a stranger, who was quite concerned by your successes and failures. If you express concern that you are about to be asked to work, and it takes the conversation to a nasty hairdresser, which is “absolutely not do something that I wanted” – should be your problem any way can not shake her composure. And if it is satisfied with the scandal because of the fact that you can not accompany her to a party, because it’ll be busy until late in the service – apparently, it generally does not correlate your career with your life plans. Probably, it is not at all on you, no plan, and your life for it is as alien as a distant galaxy. Happened there global thermonuclear war – the echo of explosions did not disturb her curls.

Do it all over again

The world is full of men who were left alone … and feel lonely. Many of them after several years of family life is not easy to return to the world of dating and dating.

Modern divorce statistics looks very depressing. A third of marriages fail in the first three years. Add to this a spouse who just happen to live separately. That is why in the world is full of men who were left alone … and feel lonely.
Many of them after several years of family life is not easy to return to the world of dating and dating. Success in such a thing as dating, comes with experience. For a couple of years you can lose all the necessary skills. So do not despair if your first evening in the bar for singles will be not so, on what you dreamed. You’ll probably need time to re-examine this world and the changes he underwent during your absence. Let the first two evenings will be for you a period of study. Turn into, dispassionate observer. This attitude will relieve you from stress. Soon you’ll easily “rent” of women in various places.
You should remember a few general principles.
1. Be patient. The main problem of men who have recently divorced, is the lack of patience. They rush to start a new woman. They are so used to the fact that every night around them was in a warm bed, a woman’s body, they believe his presence something taken for granted. Some divorced men are afraid that their body atrophied from inactivity or reduced in size. This is absolutely untrue. Resist the desire to pounce on the woman as quickly as possible. Excessive interest reduces your chances of success, in nine cases out of ten you just put off the woman. Keep calm and patience. The award will not force myself to wait.
2. Behave according to your age. I met a very attractive divorced woman of thirty, who told me about a party for divorced people. This woman has dreamed of getting acquainted with a decent man with whom she could talk and make love. Arriving at the party, she saw many men who swallowed a beer. crowded in the corner. Shyness, timidity and diffidence prevented them out from the crowd and begin to get acquainted with women. They hunted dirty jokes and drank, while recalling the company adolescents. Women, meanwhile stood apart, conversing with each other, looking at men and feeling every minute more and more lonely. My companion confessed that, if a mature and interesting man detached himself from the crowd, she walked up to him and led him away to his home. However, this did not happen. She returned to her alone, experiencing frustration and sexual hunger. Moral of this story is clear enough. You can once again become a single man, but you do not seventeen years old. Behave according to your age, and you will successfully get acquainted with women.
3. Keep your confidence. Many divorced men consider themselves “second-class product. They think that they bear the stamp of the losers. Others worry about his age and think they can not compete with a lad of twenty. Both of these representations are mistaken. According to statistics, the number of divorced persons whose age exceeds thirty, forty and even fifty years, growing steadily. The world of lonely people “aged” compared to what it was fifteen years ago, and so all are on equal footing. Of fifty men “shoot” not less than twenty-five girls, and sometimes more successfully than young people.
Remember that for every divorced man has a divorced woman. This means that you meet daily on the street, hundreds of women in the same situation as you. Today, the divorce does not reduce your social status. In fact, many recent post-divorce, women feel more comfortable with men who found themselves in the same situation. So you have a definite advantage over the young guys.
Only a few single women shun divorced men. Divorce has become so commonplace (you – one of tens of millions) that women are set to familiar exactly with divorced men. Many women, for whatever reasons, prefer men who have been in marriage. Such a person is more mature than the young men who attend bars for single … and women – always appreciate the maturity. Divorced men already. done. career and have more high incomes. However, probably the main advantage of divorced men is associated with sex. A man who went to a marriage, has a great sexual experience. He was tempted, has important skills, able to meet women. And it seems to them a valuable advantage.
Returning to the world of dating and dating, do not lose sight of the place created specially for you. Clubs, discos, bars and restaurants to give you divorced excellent chance to return to an active personal life. These facilities are not filled with losers and lunatics, but normal people like you who are looking for entertainment and communication. No matter how many years you may be, you’re bound to find a mate. You do not have, struggling with embarrassment, to say the woman that you are divorced – she already knows it.
Attend sports clubs, where men and women train together. Single people tend to care about their appearance, so many of them in such establishments. If you’re not a fan of exercise, do not worry about it. Sports Club in the first place – a place for communication, so it does not matter if a dozen push-ups – all that you are capable.
If you are going to move house, find house, where there are many lonely people. Place your residence is perfect for singles, because here a woman feel especially comfortable. Wishing to get acquainted with a neighbor, you do not awaken in her a sense of fear.
Back to the world of dating and dating is not difficult. Gone through has a divorce should not make you flawed man.

Using new skills, ensures that the receiver of feedback remained engaged.

Many who read modern efficient methods of dating and seduction, and trying to apply them in practice, completely forget about the two very important points. And as a result – failure. Then take offense. In vain.
1. Area or the scope of the methodology.
In the world there is virtually no fully universal methods and technologies that have worked in all weathers in all conditions. Efficiency is achieved, as a rule, in certain categories (nature, mind, age, mentality, psychotype, etc.).
In other cases, the effectiveness is sharply reduced or absent. Initial information gathered about the object to be analyzed on the basis of which selection of an optimum plan of action. Use everything, act by spear – does not lead to success.
2. Contact Us – pledge of successful action.
If anyone familiar with the theory of automatic control, he knows what is really reliable and stable system can not be built without the use of feedback. A relationship that should be maintained and analyzed continuously.
Application of ever having to always monitor the reaction of control object (in our case – a girl). And then decide whether further action of the current plan and its adjustment.
3. Two in One
Almost like that. Want to pickup girls? Put away the stereotypes: “What to do on the first date that the second, etc.” All your actions will greatly depend on its reaction. You take the hand. Caress fingertips, palm. You can just gently squeezed into a strong man’s hand. The temperature of the conversation does not fall? Girl is set for you kindly? Slightly priobnimi waist, put his hand on her knee. Relax? Leans in your direction? Hezhno Touch her hand to her cheek, gently rotate it to face him. Look into her eyes. Kiss, caress and do not forget to monitor the reactions.
When all the conditions of the previous step is fully implemented, the probability of success in the following amounts to more than 90%. And if she remained silent, quite cold, the pleasure of monosyllabic answers … And you missed it to continue for different places … I think, is silent on what fainted from happiness?
Then imagine yourself in this situation: you like the girl, but she is called, “not to your taste. A person, for example, square, and everything else … So, she sits next to you, building you eyes, smiling. You have a responsibility to her sour grin interspersed with sleepy yawn. Then … Oh, God! She pats you on the knee, then just below the belt … I want to run away? That’s it! And girls, they too are people. I think, feel much the same.

Understanding of lying

Calibration – this observation. This is a critically important skill that allows you to develop faster and get great results in any communication – whether it be seduction, selling or simply the conviction of someone. With the calibration can be recognized: tell you the truth or lie.

Calibration – this observation. Some of it is fairly well developed. Especially those who work with people who often have to track people’s emotions. This is a critically important skill, which allows you to develop a much faster and get great results in any communication – whether in seduction, sales or simply persuading someone.

There are a couple of simple exercises to develop this skill.

The exercise is simple. Sit down with your partner facing each other. Take 4 emotions.Two negative and two positive. For example, angry, sad, happy, joyful. First Partner “shows” you need these states. Ie ask: “John, Joe, Show me a state of joy, remember something joyful!”. It shows you remember the look on his face and body in a state of joy.

And, try to remember every wrinkle and every wrinkle on his face, remember how he holds his hands, straightens a posture, as he breathes, and so on. Some people, for example, difficult to calibrate. ”He always face a brick, the state of anger from the state of melancholy can be distinguished only by slightly raised upper lip.” This is a skill calibration: ignore even the smallest details in facial expressions.

Then the partner goes into neutral (zero) state. Then next to you translates the emotion, the next, you remember. And then he takes the emotion out of any of these four shows it, and you guessed it. And so time 8-10, while you’re with millimetric precision is not going to say “Oh, Basil!” You’re sad! “ =)))

How it helps in life?

Interlocutor’s face is always possible to determine in which he state of mind. Again, do not forget that an unknown person you need to be taken with a clean slate. If he has a sad face, it does not mean that he is sad. Perhaps he just always such a facial expression. Or maybe he really is happy and trying to smile at you:)

Here you grabbed the girl’s ass – she corners of her mouth drooped down. But his eyes sparkled with =)

Or with his grandfather began to shit. You see, that he had knocked at his lower lip and eyelid lowered to 2 mm down, then he kaaaaak ebanet you right now! Yeah, you need to calm down a bit, so that cooled down the grandfather, the conversation into another channel or start to express their thoughts: “You – the old boozer! Enough fart at night!” (more gently:))

Noticing all these little things, remember. Why people unfamiliar with communication sometimes can not be glued? And the same fear of the unknown among some. They do not realize that his interlocutor’s face is written, do not know what emotion it now broadcasts. And then to know a person better, lapped. Already know that if he had his left eye begins in the direction of mowing, it had an orgasm:)

With the help of calibration also can be recognized: tell you the truth or lie.

Technique is simple. Ask a few questions to the other party with whom he really agree. Remember his facial expressions, the internal state. Then a few issues with which he disagrees, remember “non-verbal response.”

Everything, now you ask something interesting =) For example, “What if I am right now, grab your hair and hard fuck, you like it?”. And kalibruesh true answer. Nonverbal.

Neverbalika will not lie, guys;)
Therefore, when you want to understand what is really wanted a girl, watch the reaction of her body on your actions.Words do not always tell the truth:)

NLP Seduction

Tired of waiting for reciprocity? We take and falls for an object in itself.

- Organize the context of communication with your partner that you are going to fall in love with (hereinafter – partner of A), for which: create an intimate atmosphere with soft lighting, romantic and sad music, etc. Make sure that you no one bothered .
- Build rapport with your partner but at the level of consciousness and at the subconscious level, for which:
1. Plead guilty (including a non-existent) for all past, present and future for the year ahead;
2. Cursed myself for all the dignity and praise for his partner A deficiencies;
3. Adjusts to posture, breathing, movements, intonation, rhythm and inner experiences of partner A.
- Help your partner and the maximum dive into the experience of love associated with it (him) last sexual partner (hereinafter – partner of B), highlighting only the positive aspects of this experience, for which:
1. Talk about the partner B only good;
2. Appreciates the feelings of partner A to partner B, a very uncertain time speaking out about the manifestations of these feelings so that would link the feelings of the past with the situation in the here and now. ”
- Maintenance:
1. Changing their own behavioral features that you used for the adjustment, call for a partner A rapid and irregular breathing, the desire to close his eyes, the manifestation of unconscious movements such as tremors;
2. Verbalized the alleged manifestation of your feelings partner A to partner B, against this backdrop that some aspects of the observed verbalized you here and now “behavior of a partner and begin to gently, gently touching a partner’s body, gradually extending the area of touch
3. I sincerely admire a partner, in cases of blatant flattery, use quotation marks “on behalf of the partner B” ( “and he could be glad that you know how to feel so full of life, aroused even more”). If you are familiar with the partner B, carefully plot while some aspects of it (it) non-verbal behavior.
Do not process your single utterance from the first person – talking only on behalf of partners A and B.
- Use the results as you want it:
1. Either the “here and now, making trims to the future, if you’re looking forward to a relationship;
2. Either partner A sharp return to reality, giving a negative evaluation of her (his) behavior in the here and now “the first person, if you want to call from your partner a feeling of guilt, the experience of depression, etc. Appliances will be long and difficult, but reality of running for 3-5 minutes.

tips of erotic massage

Romantic atmosphere
Free apartment from unnecessary people (the parents went to the cottage, and younger brother – to the grandmother), disconnect the phone and pager (as his own, and friends), zashtorte window. Then light the candles and burn incense awaken sexuality (patchouli, Mogren, or, if you can find, opium). Turn on the light music and lie down on a pre propylesosenny carpet or hard bed (if bed is soft, massage will not work).
Tenderness
Erotic massage should begin with gentle rubbing. The hands of your friend to gently and slowly move from the waist to the shoulders and back. Once you finally relax, love can move to the next stage.
Energy
She sits on your buttocks (if its mass allows it) and starts vigorously, but not much bang for your back heel of his hand. Strikes should be soft and springy. This element of sadism is necessary in order to improve muscle tone and stimulate circulation. Torture should not be delayed – after 5 minutes to start the climax.
Passion
Favorite dismount from your buttocks and grabbed them with her tender hands. First she kneads your ass, then back and finishes the scalp. Her fingers with force and passion massaged every inch of your body. If your friend does not champion in bodybuilding – it should be nice. Then she lays on you (again, if the mass allows) and covered with kisses back: from neck to waist, with her hands gently stroking your first rib, then come down, slip under your torso and grope for something without which it is impossible to man . After that a normal person turns over and offers to do the same massage or girlfriend asks her to wait 20 minutes until power restored.