Three simple rules of seducing a girl at a party full of strangers. The rules apply only if you go to a place where you know 2-3 people maximum.

1. There are always last with a bang. So the whole first attract attention to himself and is off to someone you do not notice. As another plus, and put that thought that that you asked, waiting for you, wondering where you are and talk about you as you turned into a secretive and interesting person, even before you arrived at kuponcheto.
2. Understanding is always first with the boys. So make time to ensure that all present and to select the object of your desires. Naturally, this subject are introduced last.

3. Try to find a place to sit or somewhere between girls and boys, or very close to a girl like you, nor too far. Thus avoiding the chopping of small groups of girls and boys, and obvious desire to sit … if only the girls. So achieve a double effect, remain the center of attention and start a conversation without you is unthinkable.

Once you have entered the situation you are familiar with everyone and have found a place at the table, comes the hardest part, how to win and retain the attention of the desired object.

4. In no, but in no way trying to use tactics of “ignore” (you want to ignore a girl under the pretext that you do not like, and at a time when his head natresete). This is too cliched, and the success of crush is below 15%. Subtleties here comes from the ability to hear other.
Sitting at the table, do not start a conversation immediately, just join an existing one by twisting the topic of conversation so that you get the information you need for a coveted girl. And if it does not participate in the conversation, you can always turn to reply, “And you …. What do you think about it “so not only it is included in the conversation, but also receive bonus points that you care about not bored at the party.
5. Once you have gathered initial information about the desired object comes trudanta most part, to start a specific conversation using the collected information or to start taking the rest of the call until only two remain. Once only two remaining in conversation with her is zayazhte for something a little on which her very excited. Then put it under pressure (I’ll tell you something “spicy” – “secret”, but after a while), making it from the table and go at least another person tied conversation by occasionally throwing an eye to the girl .
Women hate to keep them under pressure and pretty soon you will recall that it had to and say something. And once again requesting you come in and you can always bring a place where you only 2mata and continue the conversation.
6. Once separated you from the crowd and left alone, you won the battle of 80%. There has only your charm and ingenuity will show whether they will leave with the girl or it will just take the phone for a second attempt.
As a note I want to mention that these 5 rules should apply only to one person per coupon. If you defeat this guy, fight retreat rather than choose another. Otherwise you risk all to think that you have the serial womanizer weather-beaten …

first date conversation

First Date Conversation.

Dating with women is the first step of flirtation.

1. Be confident in the success.
Look maximum fine when met / first impression is always visually. Dress effectively. Approach with confidence and with confidence to the woman. What woman is apparent how you dressed and what is your self-confidence / based on body language. Your voice should be energetic, strong and stressing self-esteem and confidence you. Most men are wondering whether to show interest in women, which are introduced. Generally accept the following:
When you display a strong interest in the relationship / direct game / should look for a quick payoff and / as an exchange of physical contact or escalation. If it is too late the woman will feel that you do not know how and Can not “to get what they want – and that lowers your ranking seriously.
When you do not show interest or very little interest in women have more time before they escalate, but you may qualify as insufficiently bold.

2. Insert humor and bazitsi
This is priceless. Humor is just a fictional dating with women:). Most likely the beginning of the conversation / even if the woman you love / she will feel at least slightly uncomfortable. With humor you can easily remove any tension in the relationship and also to show how cool you are. In our practical trainings with women dating men learn how to spot small details that happen and use them in conversation and introduce a fun way. Do everything that is happening around you and it made the fun and playful way to a woman.

3. Speak with emotion and enegriya
Not once we mention that the voice is the primary tool of every man to create attraction in women. If you speak sluggish and only one plane – ie monotone – it repels women, who are acquainted with the difficult and they will listen longer. Speak with emotion – painting pictures with his voice. When you tell us learn when to make breaks, when your voice becomes quieter, deeper and more resonant when and fun. Ability to convey emotion in his voice is one of the most important if you want women to like you.

4. Tell me interesting things in dating with women
All have heard the argument that it’s not what you speak of women and how they talk. And although this statement is true, an absolute plus is if you can tell and share interesting stories. Interesting events are: fun, funny, and unpredictable end. Also tell stories that show a high rank as interesting trips, meetings with interesting and famous people, amazing things happen to you and other amazing places.

5. Keep the conversation view, where women are introduced to
In the end you give another important advice – namely water conversation and relationship all in the desired direction. When talking with a woman aware what you want to happen as a result of this conversation. Is it just for fun conversation. Is a call to an exchange of contacts. Is it call for the establishment of trust and respect between you. Is it more intimate conversation. Big mistake to expect to get results when your attitude is just a friendly conversation with the woman. Rather keep your order and let the conversation lead to just that.

How to become more than a friend with her

Either way a person uses – either way it …
The guy who just walks and talks on the theme of wisdom, never access to the body does not receive, because the process itself does not occur. Hado … the desire to be active.
A girl can get used to the talks, and no sexual association with sim wise it is no longer there. Paradox, but compared with just such a “friend” pikaperu even more useful is slightly rounded up the girl for different places …
Here’s what to think of one participant in our forum: “There are such amusing incidents: a guy I do not like, but always something joyous drives, and just that, trying to dissolve the playful little hands. Of course, I can and knock, but a little, because the same joker. And in self-defense and she can be very sensitive to pinch. Also Zateinitsa. As a result, the one who walks beside him and talk, can walk for several years, until its extinction. The man, who from the first minute dating spread legs rigorous activity, immediately set himself a tough guy, and I already can not get away from the fact that he abused herself, and I survived. Although, I repeat, both options I do not like them too. Ho second option, obviously, we must also take into account. ”
(c) Ludmila Kornetova
Relationships should pazvivatsya. Each vstpechey you should seek from it more. If you’re trying to do something (to kiss, hug), but it is not allowed, and you are then at a certain Quaternary refuse from such pretensions – it chyvstvyet that odepzhala malenkyyu pobedy. Your perseverance and purpose doubted. In this situation, you stay in dypakah because they could not bear inspection. Y If you do not have the audacity to aspire again, or the courage – to break with her … (of course, provided it is not the first date …) and you go week depzhas for hands and govopite. She understands that attacked a pigeon, and begins DURING new encroachments compose new excuses. Another chepez papy weeks, she declares: “Let’s be friends”.
Sample.
“I try to kiss her, she otvopachivaet golovy. Summoned to otkpovennost. Refers to ppedydyschy by negative experiences. We suggest to share the problems of earthquake to the solution. Do not want (her by a simple shame). Once again I begin to covet it, but it has finally arrived more active (yes, y thee PROBLEM. Ho herself you would not peshish, but with me not want to share. Poetomy I reserve the Addresses> achieve what I hochy). She smipivshis, suggests gyby. ”
Conclusion.
She chyvstvyet that you do not stop its failures, especially if she does not want them passkazyvat Details ppo and poetomy she has no choice but to agree, if she does not want you potepyat.
If you have nothing from her not tpebyesh and retreats, it pozhdaet y her sense of freedom: it would vpode can do what he wants, regardless of thy desires.
To refer them while they are on previous experience, when one of the guys vysynyv language, ran after her, tpeboval chyt if not daily visits, was offended when she did not want to see him, tpeboval of her sex – kopoche i’ve seen the future, brother, it is murder.
What are you doing? Do not run after it (all in the opposite direction), nothing from her not tpebyesh, ignopipyesh its failures and get kisses, do not you squash too, but to gradually increasing. One word – behave the opposite sovepshenno CL.
PS: By the way, but you know, pochemy they often do not want to tell their PROBLEM? Potomy that you can peshit her, and she them something gives (eg, chyvstvo guilt or something else). That is, they are not ready to give problems. They pposche, accustomed to live. For example, they may realize that solving the problem, they ppidetsya change stpategiyu. But they may not understand that causes them is often dependent on sex, and any experience ydachny clean sweep of their heads all ppelestnyh mysop.
How pazglyadet podobnyyu ppoblemy? The answer is – nekogpyentnost. All their actions, it shows that he wants to be with you, but at the last moment does not agree. Exit – perseverance and gentleness.

Happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance

Factors happy and unhappy marriage

One of these factors is whether the partner fulfills the role expected of it whatever it is. Curiously, more important for satisfaction of both partners in a marriage is the realization of expectations for the role of wife. Wives is actually more responsive to the expectations of the role of their wives than vice versa. Happiness in marriage can be predicted based on several factors, the absence of which makes it possible to foresee the occurrence of divorce. Compared with spouses wives were somewhat less satisfied with marriage and seems to have more occasions to complain. Married men have much better physical and mental health of a single, but a similar benefit for married women is very – small. When married, the woman must make greater efforts to adapt, and this is a serious source of stress. It is often isolated at home, boredom perform housework and have less influence in decision making. Women are happier if they work and have an equal voice in decision making.
Sex and comradeship are very important for marriage. Accuracy of estimates of the degree of satisfaction with the marriage can be improved, taking into account the frequency of negative interactions. Perspective of the exchange theory is that the close relationship each partner is concerned about the welfare of another, happy to see him happy, so in fact reported “profits” and “cost” of both partners.

Couples in which each seeks to obtain “compensation” for themselves, generally have less happy marriages. It is further development of the exchange theory. As we saw in many aspects of marriage is a comprehensive union of two people. A a small community, usually with common children, a common home and own independent lifestyle. This gives rise to various types of satisfaction and connects the two partners in a community where everyone depends on many other things.

The park is one of the best places to meet a beautiful woman

Most e-simple to inspect the places where women do not have accurate launchers. Otherwise, the best that is produced where they are calm, have free time and do not know how nice to fill it. Need to apply a very minimal effort to guess what kind of places that are. And if you do not receive – what to do, develop their associative thinking!

Of course, these are places of mass recreation! Where people are still in a semi-peaceful state, where they usually have more free time, where people still characterizes excellent mood? These are parks, beaches, concerts, dances, sports grounds, places for mass outings and so forth. Will become beautiful streets, the remarkable places in your city – there are often found companies and lonely girls and romantic natures.

Sites must meet the following requirements:

- Where the girls are calm
- The amount you have free time, you need to take it with something
- They do not have any artificial propulsion like: “an hour to go to work or school
- To monitor their (the girls) good-condition

Why? Because of all these places, people go just to relax and to spend a good time. In these places the mood of people is usually excellent. There is reason for much more.

And I’m still not mentioned that excellent sites Dating sites are for eating. Why? For every person, having fed, is in very good-condition than before – just by definition.

Well, let’s use it and therefore are promising any McDonalds, snack bars, bistros, cheap kafentsa under the open sky, places selling ice cream and any goodies. And so on. Excellent location and have all sorts MALL s clubs and interests.

Are also:

- Courses in psychology (and the relationships between people will learn more with girls and there is full)
- Courses in dance (learning to dance is cool as to attract attention to the ladies, in that such courses have eternal shortage of partners say: but, and reports that dance in nature is socially acceptable public analogue the sexual act)
- Courses in yoga and massage, and so forth (physical exercises are suggested including in pairs – men-women)
- Courses on “Tantra” (out on air, the number of men and women alike, are typical exercises with pronounced sexual orientation)
- Courses in foreign languages (reconciling work with pleasure, since there are many girls)
- Self-development courses and self-development
- Workshops on guitar

Moreover, all the above is more than enough. Scope for expression! Life just will not get to use priyomite of “cross section” and “quick scan”. Since the locations (and girls) are many, and you are one.

Would like to have her?

1. Self-reliance is the key. Without it, you are doomed to fail. Women like men complacent. If you do not have confidence in yourself, then Play it for a moment. Impulsive decision-making is rarely the right thing. Believe in yourself and your decisions. Stick to your guns.
2. Good appearance is always useful, but not all, when we talk about seducing a woman. Men are not made to be nice and sweet little face. Why more women are impressed by words and actions. And men who are strong, independent and have self-esteem.
Therefore, rule number 1 is so important.

3. Maintain be fresh. Do everything possible to smell good. Shower, deodorant and clothes are always clean. A breath you need to be perfect. No woman will not pay attention if you are, just as – just out of gym.

4. Addition to Rule 3. Looks. Buy new clothes look different – a new hairstyle, clothes, habits, etc. Look and be competent with regard to appearance. Forget tattoos and type of metroseksualen type.
5. Always seemed not interested in it. This causes it to be increasingly interested – seriously, it does.
6. Spend money, but not all of it. Buy drinks for you, your friends, and only then for it. If you are spending will look like – for an attractive woman.
7. Try to be seen by women as you can. This will cause women – others think that you are quite welcome. Competition stimulates them and they will look on you with different eyes. And of course, will incite them to attack.
8. Take its position in disputes and discussions. This will be favorable to you.

9. Never pretend to be someone or something like that just because she likes it like that. You must watch “Big Brother” if we do not tolerate. Women however, like the so-called men’s work as: “How can you watch these stuck, look at what seems to be a great game?” Etc.
10. View as a great woman and want to talk to her, not an easy, just do it. Thinking what to tell you discourage to do so. Just go over there and talk to her. If you do not act within 3 seconds, it will never do it. Women like to be liked by unknown men who act immediately.
11. Be patient and persistent. Even if you have done everything absolutely right when downloading does not mean that she would be interested. If the focus is another object, but to put this in the “failure”. Just retire with dignity or to be – assertive but not pushy.
12. When you first meet a woman closed meeting you first before she did. Send it to them and Wish her good night and maybe it will suddenly inquired of coffee and will invite you. Women like men who do not prick up. . . before themselves.
13. Do not take to heart her personal drama. Be prepared to stay away from her problems and drama. you may a little harder, show that you are supportive, but only that. Then remove their hidden weapons and diverted the topic to bring to its objective fact. Women like men, they soothe and gladden.
14. Just be a man. Women want a man, strong, brave, confident, knowledgeable and understanding of almost everything. I love football, soap operas and hating able to tap a good soul.

face the real truth

Self-deception – the biggest blunder that can afford people. Self-deception distorts your sense of reality and contributes to the creation of erroneous conclusions from the actual premises. Possible reasons for the illusions, there are many, ranging from the banal “I think that …” and ending with phrases in the style of “I love her.”
Let us approach the matter with a sober perspective. Consider the most frequent mistakes on the distortion of our reality.
1. Modeling of the false relation to the girl.
Explained. Met a girl and spent a day or two together, we have self-start the thought process aimed at this person. As an example, this process can result in pearls in the style of “She held it in my hand, so I told her likable, and she asked me!”. Here’s the first erroneous conclusions. You begin to build their attitude to this person, based on unconfirmed information. Accordingly, we obtain a fundamentally different development of relations – the method of “One swan cancer pike …”. This error is treated sober approach to the relationship by the method TOTE
2. Do the conclusions until the total amount of information.
An example of such an attitude to find it even easier: “She dresses well, then, it has a rich papa or a lover.” Thus, you make false conclusions from correct premises, in the end, breaking himself. This error is treated to good old method – the first 14 days of communication you do not draw any conclusions, just gathering information. Information can be recorded in a diary, for example. Conclusions can already then, after a critical stage of accumulation, and, preferably, after the confirmation of every fact. I know that sounds strange, but the probability of correct output increases by several tens of times.
3. You endure patterns of behavior of one person to another.
This is due to little experience communicating with people with experience that goes. This error is that you attribute to a new acquaintance habits (behaviors) of those with whom he knew before. Naturally, it is about such habits may not know. And do not be surprised then, if you say that the roses in her wild allergy, but in bed she prefers light masochism. It is treated as always – the new man approached with a clean slate.
4. You are not honest with himself.
Of course, you can spare himself and tell everybody that you love her. But is this really so? Maybe you just want sex? But, having formed his belief that (I love her), you begin to act on patterns of behavior that you have formed from reading books, conversations and other things, away, away. Although the patterns of speed seduction fundamentally different. So, putting himself in one frame, but seeking completely different purposes, you get? Right – two lines, which are called parallel. And if at the end of one of them is rough sex, it does not mean that you have you come to him on the second line. This error is treated honesty with himself – putting his real purpose, of their real desires, you’ll get them really.
5. “Luck – it is simply the result of very careful preparation”
Excess.
I understand that this problem is difficult to avoid, because its dimensions are cosmogonic sizes, but: YOU AND ONLY YOU, ARE RESPONSIBLE for what happens to you in your life.
Difficult, right? But the thing is that your world – a reflection of your attitude towards him. But if you believe in yourself and your world, your world, your card will be confident in you. You just need to learn responsibility, responsibility for everything. We must learn to be responsible for your words, you need to take responsibility for change in themselves, need to take responsibility for their communications, their actions, their thoughts. Everything in your life is because you are so let this happen. Now compare the line of conduct of the two types of people: “I wanted to, but: I tried, but it is: I’m almost done, but …” and “I wanted to and I tried, even if it is, I did despite”. You have complete freedom of choice – to take responsibility for their change and victory, or provide other this sweet fate.

Is she disrepect you?

Disrespect for you can be a form of verification, when you like girls, but she wants to determine whether you deserve it. She will check you in order to find out who you are – everybody indulges her whims of a boy or a man …

At the first sign of disrespect to you or rejection of the possibility of a time with you, let her know that you do not like. When she calls you and wants to take a walk or something else, say that her behavior was unacceptable, so the only way to allow her to hang out with you again, do any garbage that you want her to do (sleep, sing a song, to treat tea, etc.), because it violated the rules. If all you want from it, kiss it – get it. If you want to make it sexy dressed, make her do it. If she does not agree to your terms, tell them that you are not going to call her again until “thou shalt not be ready to meet my expectations.” The idea is that when the fox return, she will crawl, and you will have the power in your relations.
Ross Jeffries offers first to warn that in general the same. You need to show that you mean business. “Do not be afraid to call her. Girls will always test the limits of your patience. Therefore, once it does, call me. Tell her that you will not be tolerated and it should not do it again. Never forget that you were born without its help and that the earth there are hundreds and thousands like her even better than it ”
Disrespect you may also be a form of verification, when you like girls, but she wants to determine whether you deserve it. She will check you in order to find out who you are – everybody indulges her whims of a boy or man with self-control, able to take the initiative in their hands.
Мr. Happy (alt.seduction.fast) “In order to pass such a test (for example, the abolition of the interview with her hand), you must:
1. show that you do not lose your composure
2. to show that you are not going to whine about it
3. show that it will not hurt
4. show that this is disrespect to you and you will not allow this to her.
Item 4. The most important, but you must make paragraphs 1.-3. Also performed

What she really needs

Simple, but effective ways to support the interest on the part of girls.

It sounds like something that phrase incorrectly. Especially about “his girl”. It is that – housewares? The first thing to grasp – a woman can not be “their”. She sleeps with us, spends time, etc. because it has this “want”. And not because it “belongs”. Hence the need to make a natural conclusion: in order that the woman went to sleep with us, to do so, she wanted it.
The problem is thus reduced to the problem of pickup – seduction. Which is in the process of continuing relationship, on the one hand, simpler (it is more receptive to us, there are no initial fears), on the other hand, there is a set of confounding factors. For example, it is in you can find something that is repulsive to her line, or she may begin hearing voices – she can be heard Mendelssohn’s march (unlikely that you want, right?), Or … or someone else can take your place. It is this last case and analyze.
First, let’s get to the natural question: “Why?”. After all, we can always seemed to find himself someone else … a lot of women, in the end.
The answer, in my opinion, it is equally natural: “And because he wants”. Women are not all alike, and, sometimes, the amount of effort that will have to spend on finding an equivalent replacement, begin to exceed the amount of effort that have to spend on maintaining status quo.
So, we have the following ways.
1. MLTR (multi long time relations) – when you have openly established, “we just get together, spend time together, have sex and do not have a claim, if anyone of us would sleep with someone else.” Heky analogue of an open economy, when you just do not have enemies. That is, the “danger” that a woman will go to someone else, as it persists in the bud – it simply makes no sense to leave. However, this simple idea in the plan, it may be a little tricky to support. The main drawback – the woman can “love” someone, that is, to wish to stay only with him. And again we remain the task, which put.
2. “Exaltation of the walls” in the spirit that is doing most of the people. Jealousy, shadowing, dispersal of other men swatter … Adverse reactions to the proposal to go somewhere in a public place (like a club) together – how could there have so many other men! – Or (God forbid!) Let her go alone somewhere.
3. It should be remembered, however, that the fortress and city walls atrophied with the invention of heavy artillery. You can not graze the woman round the clock, even if she lives with you under one roof. I’m not talking about if you “meet” … Moreover, this tactic can cause resentment on her part. Mutiny on the ship. When so carefully “guarded” the girl you go to the club, so from a sense of contradiction there to pick up someone else.
4. The spirit of contradiction – is a quite strong engine, and I have no doubt that the spirit of contradiction girl, which banned the meet with a guy, not approved by the family, if not lie with him soon, it will find someone who would be with their point of view even more “idiot”. 16-year old spirit of contradiction, this simple rule, but does not die, usually in a much more mature age.
5. And, finally, should think about who can do this so troublesome thing – watch your treasure? Who is next to a woman all day and can look after her? Right – she is. Let us recall the natural property of the women – they tend to perceive attentions of many men, but they will be perfectly happy if at the same time they will have one – the best!
How to stay this “best”?
1. Every woman, like all of us, have needs. In addition to the desire of sex, there are certainly others. Examine them and make sure that you are fully covered by its requirements. In any case, you should be familiar with those of dissatisfaction which may cause the desire to look for them meet on the side of someone else.
2. I’m talking about emotional needs. Dig here! Huzhen whether her man, with whom it would be “cool” – Turretless pepper, able to drive at night on an unfamiliar road with the lights turned off? Or she needs care and kindness? Or is it both? Or else? Find, explore the market and become the best supplier. Keep in mind that the market tends to change.
3. The best way to spur competition. The degree of explicitness of this competition is always necessary to choose in each case, as the extent to which “it” man you are. Ho general principle is – she must understand the instability of his position. Look, do not overdo it – she can refuse to make long-term investments in too unstable and risky business. Once again – everything should be considered in each case separately.
4. Similarly, adjust the question of how she feels “owned”. Deviations from the optimum point of dangerous gap. Hadavite more – see paragraph 2. If she feels more free than she would – she will try the limits of this freedom, trying to finally bring you to jealousy (of course, how?). It is interesting how you need it.
5. Always stay for her interesting and not entirely comprehensible. Predictability kills feelings.
6. Hauchite her to share with you fantasies (even sexual), if possible bring them to life and create new ones.
7. Tell us (or show) it, as pick-up women. Let her know that you are in this good. Now any “pikaper” will not help compare it with you. And if you did everything correctly – it was not in his favor. She had a smile will look at the clumsy attempts of other guys to get her telephone number. Tell you – wonderful, you will have the opportunity hmyknut and with a serious face to say that he did not. Ho not addressing this “stuff” too much time and attention.
And again. Remember that a woman can not be “its”. Even if she finds herself completely yours, something you have to understand that she is here because she wants it. Cease to want – will not be. It is very simple.

Raise her profile

Games with a decrease in value sometimes come to an end so that she becomes completely indifferent. So to be able to improve the relevance of time – a good skill.

Often faced with such a strange conviction: “Long-term relationship can not tie between a man and woman if the guy has applied a lot of pikaperskih methods (including changes submodalities HLP and hypnosis – approx. The author), and even more so if they had had sex within a few first meetings.
Ironically, in the maps pikaperskih and “not quite” techniques, this method has been missed. So let’s talk about adding value.
The method of lowering the value pikaperam known for quite some time and has proved its excellent performance. On the other hand, this way of taming their own feelings towards the girl has a side effect – it becomes unnecessary. Its use and forget. That, however, often justifiably and properly.
On the other hand, sometimes deliberately want to extend the relationship with the girl, meanwhile, as the “trend” is already on to the next girlfriend.
Here and need this method of increasing significance for themselves girls to strive for it not only consciousness, but his whole body and soul.
Environmental warning: increased visibility may lead to that girl you send. Be ready for this turn of events and keep your relationship under control.
The method of the first (the easiest and weakest)
A lot to think about it. The more you think about it, the faster fall in love. Presented himself next to her in many different situations and mentally scroll through the movie or dialogue. After a while, you find that you want to be with her.
Method Two (requires some imagination, faster)
Haznachay her to meet and prepare everything before. Until the purchase of her toothbrush and light nadushivaniya some perfume for clothes that she will wear her robe in the morning instead of your belongings. Such training usually takes a day (sometimes more), then a quiet evening alone has seen quite differently. A couple of evenings – and you’ll be in love with her strongly enough. It is important to think about and consider all the details for her comfort and pleasure.
The method of the third (for HLP-jers, fastest)
Submodalities changes. Change the Submodalities own perception of girls before the relationship to it, which you want to receive. Should strictly take into account the ecology of action on the model of setting goals and ask for part of the possible objections.
In principle, this article could finish. I would like to draw your attention to the point that I consider essential: your relationship with a woman – as a result of your activities. And these relations will be as what you yourself want them to do. The approach to solving your problems creatively – create their own methods of increasing importance, in the right situation Enact fall, and then be able to raise back, perhaps even this cycle will have to do repeatedly … experiment!