Seducing a man

He likes you, and you tell him is not very. Hopeless situation? Not at all! A little crazy, cunning and perseverance, and he will be at your feet. Visiting friends or relatives, say, at work, you are constantly facing the man, who the person is good, and not poor, and witty, and even collects stamps, just like you as a child. It would seem, well, nothing fiance? Alas, there is only one problem: the fairy-tale prince does not pay you any attention. Well, then you have to take the initiative in their hands.
Let us cast away doubts

In doubt, but whether it is worth trying to win his heart? Certainly, it is worth, in the end, you’ve nothing to lose. Make a good face on a bad game, you always have time to, for example, said: “We argued with the girlfriend that you do not benefit women. Looks like I won!” Believe me, there are few men who can dispassionately listen to these words. Incidentally, it is possible that here are your many fruitless attempts to get his attention finally crowned with success.
First befriend

This is an old and tested method – to make better and irreplaceable friend of your chosen one. Constantly stresses his dignity (men generally amenable to flattery), and listen carefully to complaints and give sound advice and help in solving the pressing problems, from time to treat something yum-yum, preferably of their own making – in other words, teach him to think that you are always there and he can count on you in a difficult moment. You can share a hobby, then you will always be something to talk about. Of course, all must comply with the measure, not stooping to the role of a girl on an errand. Remember, you – a friend, and not a fan or a maid, so save your dignity.
If you loved a man allow himself to at least one disrespectful words or actions in your address, we recommend immediately end the relationship – or “the abyss of humiliation and torment zillion” you provided. But if the friendship really took place, then everything goes according to plan, and time for you to embark on its second part. Perish, and not necessarily mysterious, just go on holiday, where you’re a good rest before the decisive battle for the heart of the beloved. If you return you will be welcomed with open arms and the words: “How do you prettier!” You know, I so missed you, consider that the forces were well spent.
The method of contrasts

You can, however, act differently. Arrange his handpicked douches, skillfully alternating between fiery passion with icy inaccessibility. First, you appear before him in a frank, stressing the benefits your dignity clothes, flirting with him, casting meaningful glances, and his whole appearance, demonstrating: “Darling, you need only give a helping hand, and I am yours!” After some time (the main thing here to choose the right moment), your behavior will change to a diametrically opposite: now you button up both forward and in a figurative sense, but a wave of arctic cold, coming from you can freeze even the most experienced winterer. And there really any man would at least wonder why you had similar metamorphosis.
And how would you he is not treated initially, he felt hurt by the fact that he suddenly ceased to be the object of your worship. This means that you and the cards in your hand: to bear a meaningful pause, snizoydite to the confused poor thing, kindly smile, Keep a talk, and if after all this, your relationship will not be closer, alas, have to admit that you are in the very not to his taste. And by the way, the sooner you will understand, the better for you – a woman, for many years fruitlessly pursuing the man is truly a sad spectacle.

Kissing techniques

“He embraced her, pressed her to his chest, covered it with trembling, half-open lips with passionate kisses. Werther! – She exclaimed, breathless voice, turning away. – Werther! “This, of course, Goethe. Tell me how you kiss, and I’ll tell you who you are. The way you kiss a man, you can tell a lot about his character.

Even Plato was thinking about why people are so willing to kiss. His theory is as follows. Previously, a person resembling a ball. He had four arms, four legs and two heads, both male and female. This is a single creature, however, was too arrogant, and Zeus, angry, divided it into “male” and “female” halves. And only through a kiss, according to Plato, it will connect again. In any case, the separation was a punishment. Zeus is not going to give people pleasure … I miscalculated.

Two-thirds of the world’s population first kiss at age fourteen. Most Affectionate nation – the Germans. They kiss a day on average 3.2 times (in cheek), and 1,3 times give each other erotic kisses. Love for kissing again flared up in the 80 years of this century, and nobody knows why.

The science of kissing

What a lot of kisses, that, according to surveys of American Scientists, on average, live five years longer and not too often turn to doctors. During the kiss, the body produces a large number of neuropeptides. When they are activated, then destroy viruses and bacteria. Therefore stronger immune system. There neuropeptides, which act as doping Other comparable with painkillers – they are almost 200 times stronger than morphine. If a friend says that your kisses are doing, its insane, believe me – it’s the best compliment.

While kissing accelerated heart rate (to 150). Moreover, the frequency of strikes with a particularly strong excitation can be doubled. Pressure off scale. Lips swell. They are soft and pink. Therefore brightly painted lips – an erotic symbol. In every kiss – lips to lips – includes up to 34 different muscles. Clearly, at a cost and calories. Three-minute kiss – and 12 calories as neither happened. There is a suggestion that a kiss is “infectious” is dangerous. Oh no! Do not be afraid of infection, which allegedly transmitted by kissing. Among 13 tested from his hoarse only one partner infected. With every kiss in “possession” to give you millions of bacteria. But this does not mean mortal danger. In every human saliva contains enzymes and antibodies that can withstand any infection. In addition, saliva contains androsterone – a substance stimulating sexual desire.

Dry kissing

He does not kiss, he just wants to kiss her. His lips remain completely calm. He kisses so dry, as it can. Assume that the galloping scam was not for him. It is a reliable and solid partner in life.

Intense kissing

For him kiss – kind of attack. His lips do not look, they are assaulting. He bites into your lips passionately and so much that you both start to choke. Do not mess with him a long time. Enjoy a short-term bond.

Kiss – “bracket”

He needs closely. His arms embrace you, or he just can not kiss. He pressed to your whole body, every gesture shows how you need it. Here is a man who is looking for faithfulness, promises to her and often hold.

“Professional” kiss.

This is not just a kiss, a kiss of fireworks. It begins with a set of small kisses, as if he had a thousand lips. It sucks your lips, nibbling them bites. Kiss every time a new way He’s a good lover, but, alas, not too sure. With him will always seem like you are kissing a married man.

If you kiss my eyes are usually closed. Only 9 percent of men and women leave the eyes open.

With a kiss we send each other 60 mg of water, 0.7 mg of protein, 0.7 mg of fat, 0.4 mg of salt, 0.16 mg of secrets and millions of bacteria.

Nine out of nine adults keep memories of the first kiss of life. Longest “kinopotseluy” belongs to Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman in Hitchcock’s film “Notorious.” It lasted 11 minutes.

Recent American research has shown that there is a special male gene that causes the representatives of the strong half of humanity from time to kiss other men’s wives.

Japanese – the principal opponents of kisses. The survey showed that during the “kissing” scenes of television, most people in the country of the rising sun to switch your “box” to another program Love – a real, sincere and profound – leads to kissing, only 20 percent of adult Germans. The remaining 80 percent are satisfied with the fact that “just” fell in love.

“Kiss-record” belongs to Alfred Wolfram from the U.S. state of Minnesota, which for 480 minutes a woman kissed 8001

And now that you know absolutely everything about kissing, it’s time to apply their knowledge in practice.

Do you want to touch him?

Very powerful weapon in the seduction – touch. Their magic power can bewitch absolutely any guy. When you understand, observe and feel that it is time to reduce the distance, begin to touch him, touch him. How?

At the beginning of dating – is harmless handshake. Can a little while to turn the palm up, as if to kiss her hand. Stop your hand in his hand and slowly slipping stroking and teasing him. If you’re already talking among themselves, occasionally touched his arm. This gesture expresses tenderness, openness, convergence. Make sure that your hands are warm. This is a very strong, compelling reception. Especially when you touch his hand just above the wrist.

Play with him in a fascinating and very exciting game called “random touch”. Dealt with it literally for a split second as though “by chance”. The touches should be very light, barely perceptible. Find a reason to touch. For example, disagreeing with his point of view during a call, you can touch his wrist. Laughing at his joke or story is easy to scratch him on the shoulder, as if thereby through it, and stressing that you be pleased with him. If he sends you an object (book, pen, glass, salt, etc.), touch the it at the moment when he will bring it to you, stop and stroked his hand.

Public transportation, when you’re constantly shaking and shaking, the ideal place for such games is a huge open space for casual touching, such as the thigh or leg, and can “stand” for him not to fall down and doing different innocent “pranks.” Sitting at the table in the cafe would be tempting “casual” touching feet. During the funeral can be gently on your forearm. Pay attention to other touches. All of this quickly and effectively to make him more closely.

Finally, go with him to a disco (or dance), where you can dance together, touching each other. But it must ensure in advance that he was pleased to see you any touch, not only to your skin or hair (they must be free of varnish), but also to the fact that you wore. Therefore, clothing should be soft and silky to the touch. In general you should look so that he would like to touch you! If he behaves passively, put a little sexy gestures, for example, straighten hair or “accidentally” passed his hand on his knee. The romantic atmosphere, soft lighting and pleasant melody quickly do their job and will set up a new friend to continue dating.

But at the same time you must constantly be alert and watch for his reaction. Touching it, you inevitably find yourself in its intimate zone and thus you are talking to him that you are something you want. It is important that it is correctly understood your desires and intentions, realized that you want!
Your task is to learn the art of touch so that he felt the heat coming from you, wanted to reduce the distance between you and wanted to come closer, you spend your time and effort. Too rapid a development could be seen a guy as a desire equally rapid transition relations in the

What to say on a first date

You need a man if not for life, then at least for a long time? Then, since familiarity should observe these commandments.

You are allowed to first take the initiative only giving zazyvnye signals through gestures, flirting with him. If you’re sitting in a cafe, it would be a mistake, if you first speak to him. The conversation will just let him! That you protect yourself from those men who are not looking for dating, and have been here for some other reason. If he really wants to meet you, it will first take the initiative. If he sits for a long time and you’re convinced that he is clearly trying to look shy and awkward dating, then the maximum you can provoke conversation.

Remember that attitude, first, fragile as a crystal vase, and, secondly, they can not fix anything! Therefore we must be careful to any man with whom you begin acquaintance, and build from the beginning just such a relationship, what you need it! Because then anything can not alter! Forget how you started with the same men, otherwise everything will be like last time …

Every new acquaintance start anew, owns some successful techniques for you, worked them! And from the start take the lead, allowing you to build such a relationship the most, what you need most, and to influence their development and be an active participant in the development of relations, rather than a passive observer. So the initiative in the relationship belongs to you! In any case, at each interview try to relax and have fun, just have a good time regardless of how the will to develop relations with new friends and whether they will do.

Let him speak in the main it! Remember that word – silver, silence – gold. If you give a man the opportunity to speak, he would very soon feel affection for you. So be grateful listener. Thus you, on the one hand, can not call it stimulation of women’s incessant chatter, and, on the other hand, give him an opportunity to show our best side. Will try to ask him about himself, beloved, what his hobbies and friends, as he lives.

Let him speak more than he let it be in the spotlight. Particularly encouraged to talk about their hobbies and the fact that he knows very well about his work, a hobby, but not about his personal life and even less about women. Let it be quite simple earthly things, but not fantastic feats of Hercules or the fictitious adventures of Odysseus. If you suspect that he begins to fantasize, to change the subject because the next time he may forget, get confused and have to feel uncomfortable. And be careful, concerned and appreciative listener. Look him straight in the eye. Let him finish the thought, do not interrupt me! Men, unlike women, must bring the idea to the end otherwise it will lose it and be annoyed.

If there was a pause, ask what else he likes, what else is keen that more interesting to him. Talk about travel, maybe he was somewhere or something wants to see. But do not ask too many questions. Try to ask such questions, to which he can give a detailed answer short, 40 minutes, in general, be able to speak, and not simply answer “yes” or “no.” And helped him in this. He worries no less than you, he is not sure of himself and wants to impress. So if you want to continue the relationship, there must be precise and clear to him that he made it very impressed!

In the process of communication words and his whole appearance indicated that he’ll like it! We must learn to listen and then you will know everything about him that you need and desire to be able to make him love me. However, the need to actively listen, join with him in dialogue. Interested in the minutest detail, specify the detail of his story, in general, directed the conversation to you in the right direction. Everything he says about his tastes, that he likes perceived absolutely seriously and remember! And remember that no accounting for tastes! In the process of communication if you learn to listen, you know that it attracts and repels that, in general, his presentation of the ideal and the fact that it is important in life. And in accordance with the need to slightly modify their behavior, according to his ideals that he saw in you the woman of his dreams. And also in further conversation with him must be the most stressed points, which for him is particularly important, thus this community attitudes, life values and priorities have to be brought together.

However, avoid anything that is connected with its material prosperity and finances, his living conditions, avoid details of his personal life. Listen to his responses to your questions, as he openly and easily begins to respond. If he refuses, we must quickly begin to discuss something else, otherwise excessive interest in his personal life, it can scare.

Conversation on your first date

Dating advice for woman

Talking about yourself, just say something nice that you have had in life, but not associated with your former fans. You’ve got to put yourself in the most favorable light. Only talks good about themselves and their lives. Tell me some fun and funny incidents that happened to you (but they should not be your ex and your love affairs). Tell him about his hobbies, hobbies (cars, sports, flowers, animals, collections, needlework, etc.). Tell him in a fun form of their abilities, achievements and successes, the positive features of his character. Perhaps you can find common interests …
In general, in your conversation should only be positive! No problem. Avoid discussing any issues, both his and other people (relatives, colleagues, subordinates or students). Not a word about their shortcomings. In the early dating, avoid candor, there is no talk about their dreams and hopes, how many children you would like to have. This is a topic for discussion only with good friends, relatives and beloved man, whom you have long been familiar. Now it is only alienate him. In addition, your conversation should be only two actors – you and he! And no one else! No gossip! No stories about the lives of others. No details of the lives of friends or relatives with whom he is not yet known.
Also avoid talking about that is not interesting and common to both of you. Finally, a word about their feelings and experiences! For men of feeling – this is terra incognita, in this area men absolute ignoramuses, and he will feel like a complete idiot. But most importantly, is the minimum of information about yourself! Let him speak and he confessed.

The first meeting should not last long, for 2-3 hours and that you should finish it, but not him! What is the limit? Very simple: you must feel that he was still hungry from communicating with you, he wants to communicate more … He should remain interested in continuing the conversation to get to know you, he should not be satisfied with your company.
The best way to interrupt a meeting at the peak of your rendezvous, when your communication with full swing and still so much I want to say to each other. Interrupting a conversation so he will need to meet again with you, to at least finish the conversation. And most importantly, the end of a meeting he should exactly know whether you want to continue a relationship or not.
There should be no understatement and obnadezhivaniya. If you want to continue the relationship, please tell him about it, for example, expressed his gratitude for a wonderful evening, tell me what you liked to talk to him that you would gladly went with him somewhere else. If you want to make this meeting was the last one, then tell me that you were glad to meet and say goodbye, wished him all the best.
During the meeting in his story about their hobbies and tastes as if by accident, tell him where would you like to go that you do love to visit and where to spend time. Well, if it will be the place that did not require him great material costs. The man – a hunter and if you want long-term relationship, then it should you win, not buy! Generally in the beginning of a relationship needs to be done so that he spent on you one time, not money.
You need a man if not for life, then at least for a long time? Then, since familiarity should observe these commandments.

You are allowed to first take the initiative only giving zazyvnye signals through gestures, flirting with him. If you’re sitting in a cafe, it would be a mistake, if you first speak to him. The conversation will just let him! That you protect yourself from those men who are not looking for dating, and have been here for some other reason. If he really wants to meet you, it will first take the initiative. If he sits for a long time and you’re convinced that he is clearly trying to look shy and awkward dating, then the maximum you can provoke conversation.

Remember that attitude, first, fragile as a crystal vase, and, secondly, they can not fix anything! Therefore we must be careful to any man with whom you begin acquaintance, and build from the beginning just such a relationship, what you need it! Because then anything can not alter! Forget how you started with the same men, otherwise everything will be like last time …

Every new acquaintance start anew, owns some successful techniques for you, worked them! And from the start take the lead, allowing you to build such a relationship the most, what you need most, and to influence their development and be an active participant in the development of relations, rather than a passive observer. So the initiative in the relationship belongs to you! In any case, at each interview try to relax and have fun, just have a good time regardless of how the will to develop relations with new friends and whether they will do.

Let him speak in the main it! Remember that word – silver, silence – gold. If you give a man the opportunity to speak, he would very soon feel affection for you. So be grateful listener. Thus you, on the one hand, can not call it stimulation of women’s incessant chatter, and, on the other hand, give him an opportunity to show our best side. Will try to ask him about himself, beloved, what his hobbies and friends, as he lives.

Let him speak more than he let it be in the spotlight. Particularly encouraged to talk about their hobbies and the fact that he knows very well about his work, a hobby, but not about his personal life and even less about women. Let it be quite simple earthly things, but not fantastic feats of Hercules or the fictitious adventures of Odysseus. If you suspect that he begins to fantasize, to change the subject because the next time he may forget, get confused and have to feel uncomfortable. And be careful, concerned and appreciative listener. Look him straight in the eye. Let him finish the thought, do not interrupt me! Men, unlike women, must bring the idea to the end otherwise it will lose it and be annoyed.

If there was a pause, ask what else he likes, what else is keen that more interesting to him. Talk about travel, maybe he was somewhere or something wants to see. But do not ask too many questions. Try to ask such questions, to which he can give a detailed answer short, 40 minutes, in general, be able to speak, and not simply answer “yes” or “no.” And helped him in this. He worries no less than you, he is not sure of himself and wants to impress. So if you want to continue the relationship, there must be precise and clear to him that he made it very impressed!

In the process of communication words and his whole appearance indicated that he’ll like it! We must learn to listen and then you will know everything about him that you need and desire to be able to make him love me. However, the need to actively listen, join with him in dialogue. Interested in the minutest detail, specify the detail of his story, in general, directed the conversation to you in the right direction. Everything he says about his tastes, that he likes perceived absolutely seriously and remember! And remember that no accounting for tastes! In the process of communication if you learn to listen, you know that it attracts and repels that, in general, his presentation of the ideal and the fact that it is important in life. And in accordance with the need to slightly modify their behavior, according to his ideals that he saw in you the woman of his dreams. And also in further conversation with him must be the most stressed points, which for him is particularly important, thus this community attitudes, life values and priorities have to be brought together.

However, avoid anything that is connected with its material prosperity and finances, his living conditions, avoid details of his personal life. Listen to his responses to your questions, as he openly and easily begins to respond. If he refuses, we must quickly begin to discuss something else, otherwise excessive interest in his personal life, it can scare.